Popping the cherry: Is virginity something to be proud of or ashamed of?

[bkps]

Well, in my opinion, virginity is something to be proud of. The fact that society nowadays believes that at the age of 18 being a virgin is 'uncool' or whatever is quite sickening. A lot of people lie about their virginity because they fear they'll be judged, and it is true but i think people should treasure their virginities, lose it to someone they trust. Sex is not just sex, it can't just be meaningless, it's more about the love making and the bond you're making with the other person.

[Special]

proud, most people can have sex whenever they want now days, the achievement is turning it down

unless you get to a certain age lol

[lawrawrrr]

It depends from person to person. I don't think there's anything shameful in losing your virginity at any age, and the social pressures some people feel can be really horrible and make people rush into things they might not be ready for. People should lose their virginity when they feel like they're ready, no rushing, no pressure etc. Even the words like ****, **** (idk what's filtered these days, terms for a promiscuous woman) are arbitrary in my point of view, people should have sex as much, or as little as they want.

TL;DR, there's no shame in sex and we should stop pretending like there is.

[0pposit3]

I think virginity is nothing to be ashamed of, clearly i'm old school but if you don't love someone don't have it, i know i sound old but come on, it's called making love for a reason. maybe i feel this way because i'm worried i will never love it but life goes on. everyones different and i don't think it should be frowned upon. losing it at the age of 10-12 should be frowned upon (no offense to anyone who this has happened to) because firstly its illegal and secondly how do you know what you're doing? i certainly wouldn't even know how to approach doing it. thats my opinion anyway and most of you will think i'm frigit and wrong but it is what it is.

[Happy-Tomato]

there is a fine line where it is and isnt OK to lose your virginity. I'll map it out based on my opinion

ABSOLUTELY NOT OK:
10 Years Old
11 Years Old
12 Years Old
NOT OK:
13 Years Old
14 Years Old
15 Years Old
OK:
16 Years Old
17 Years Old
A BIT SILLY IF YOU HAVENT LOST IT:
18 Years Old
19 Years Old

[lawrawrrr]

there is a fine line where it is and isnt OK to lose your virginity. I'll map it out based on my opinion

ABSOLUTELY NOT OK:
10 Years Old
11 Years Old
12 Years Old
NOT OK:
13 Years Old
14 Years Old
15 Years Old
OK:
16 Years Old
17 Years Old
A BIT SILLY IF YOU HAVENT LOST IT:
18 Years Old
19 Years Old

A bit silly if you haven't? Why is it silly?

[Happy-Tomato]

i didnt really mean it was SILLY, but it is pretty unheard of in this day and age.

A bit silly if you haven't? Why is it silly?

[lawrawrrr]

i didnt really mean it was SILLY, but it is pretty unheard of in this day and age.

Ah I see. I think it's actually more common than you'd think, because of the social pressures I think a lot of people lie, or exaggerate about when they did it. I know a lot of people even my age (20) who haven't lost it still. I'd say the average age is 17-21 tbh.

[Shar]

there is a fine line where it is and isnt OK to lose your virginity. I'll map it out based on my opinion

ABSOLUTELY NOT OK:
10 Years Old
11 Years Old
12 Years Old
NOT OK:
13 Years Old
14 Years Old
15 Years Old
OK:
16 Years Old
17 Years Old
A BIT SILLY IF YOU HAVENT LOST IT:
18 Years Old
19 Years Old

Excuse me but why is it silly? Have you accounted for abstinence etc?

[Happy-Tomato]

i didnt really mean it was SILLY, but it is pretty unheard of in this day and age.

Excuse me but why is it silly? Have you accounted for abstinence etc?