Big sorta... Mistake.

[AndrewByrne]

Long distance relationships don't work
End it now.


500th post btw

[cocaine]

I'm not ignoring you. I know what you're saying, and it's tempting... IDK. >_<

not ignoring me haha, i mean in general, cus u sed u sometimes ignore advice ;D

[Pyroka]

Nah I said I wouldn't ignore advice, even if it was Damien telling me to do something... Blergh idk what I mean LOL.

k I don't mean to sound like I'm off on a wobbler, but how can you say long distance relationships don't work if you've never been in one? :S

[Abbie.]

ive been in one

it didnt work..

maybe mines different because i was younger, idk

[buttons]

i've been in one that was like 45 mins away n it didn't work coz i cud never be bothered to see him, if u can go see her & she doesn't come see you then she's not rly commited lol

[Pyroka]

Have you? Never knew that.

It is harder when you're younger, you can't travel on your own accord. See, I prefer long distance relationships, it takes the physical attribute from the whole equation and sets on the personality more than anything... and I like that. It's what you call my cup of tea, I guess.

buttons, she lives hour and a half away on zee plan, and i can afford the plane, but she was the one who offered to see me, not the other way around. I've never ever ever ever had that in a relationship before, and that's maybe what's got me thinking, are the relatives of hers wrong and is this something different to what shes usually like... :S

[Abbie.]

Have you? Never knew that.

It is harder when you're younger, you can't travel on your own accord. See, I prefer long distance relationships, it takes the physical attribute from the whole equation and sets on the personality more than anything... and I like that. It's what you call my cup of tea, I guess.

buttons, she lives hour and a half away on zee plan, and i can afford the plane, but she was the one who offered to see me, not the other way around. I've never ever ever ever had that in a relationship before, and that's maybe what's got me thinking, are the relatives of hers wrong and is this something different to what shes usually like... :S

yeaa, when i was like 14 lol, but the thing was he was obbessed with me and was like 'I LOVE U' all the time, and i didnt like him that much but didnt want to hurt his feelings but then he was getting way to clingly and was wanting me to meet up with me, and i refused too lol.

yours is different because your old enough to make discisions like that, to go and visit her, if you know what i mean :S? and your sorta convincing yourself that you want it to work from what im reading into it, so yeah, do what your gut says :].

[Pyroka]

yeaa, when i was like 14 lol, but the thing was he was obbessed with me and was like 'I LOVE U' all the time, and i didnt like him that much but didnt want to hurt his feelings but then he was getting way to clingly and was wanting me to meet up with me, and i refused too lol.

yours is different because your old enough to make discisions like that, to go and visit her, if you know what i mean :S? and your sorta convincing yourself that you want it to work from what im reading into it, so yeah, do what your gut says :].

LOL, god what you said reminds me of.. me, actually, a year ago. I used to be totally obsessed with my ex-gf as you might know, idk if I told you... and yeah, I met up with her but she'd never pull her own weight to come and see me. This relationship though that I'm in now... It's different, and well... it could work, but idk. :S

yeah i want it to work, defo, id be lying i didnt want it to work.

oh god... eek. >_< brb she's on MSN to me.. ahhhhhhh. idk what. LOL.

[leah]

You obviously like the girl from Scottland more, and have a connection with her, If the distance isn't a problem in your opinion then go for it...
You've said you trust her too... Maybe she treated those other guys like that because she didn't really like them much, She hasn't given you any reason to doubt her either, Go camping with her and see how you feel after that.

[MissAlice]

Just this is coming from a woman whose known my gf since she was born, and I've known her for little over 2 weeks. I ask myself is it worht the hassle, 2 weeks isn't long so is it worth even trying to make it work if I'm already having problems at this point. It's conflicting opinions, yeah I've gathered all the opinions of people in my head and they're clashing, it's like schitzophrenia. I dunno what to do...

A girl I've liked in work told me she split up with her boyfriend today, and I know why she told me that. This has made matters even worrrrrrrse, since I have an option now. Go with the girl up north who I get along with more than anyone I've ever met, or go with the girl I like in work whose working same place as me but well... Would it last? I don't know what to think of the situation, it's damn confusing and... idk...

Blergh, hope anyone can help because I'm stuck.

You are already stressed out, so ask yourself is this what you want? This woman told you about her niece for a good reason. I don't mean to sound harsh, but you are young and trust is needed for any relationship to work, be it 10 miles or 450. You already have doubts and you don't know what to think, it's already eating away at you, so are you prepared to have this in the back of your mind all the time? Because that's how it's going to be. You have also admitted to liking someone else. How would you feel if you heard she liked someone else too? Pretty hurt I imagine! So ask yourself is she worth the heartache?