Relationships and uni

[Lycan]

Quite a number of my Couple friends split this year when they went to Unis .. creepy how i'm one the last left

[Loqo]

If you are going to different Uni's then as hard as it is to say it, go your separate ways and long distant relationships NEVER work, period. If you are both at the same Uni but doing different subjects/courses, then it will be cool. You can both see each-other at lunch and all and if you live their, see each-other of a night.

[RedStratocas]

im in pretty much the same situation. im at college, shes still in high school. next year will be more complicated, cause i dont know where she'll be yet. i see her every other weekend, so i guess its not that bad, but its still hard to emotionally deal with.

[CS-dude]

If you are going to different Uni's then as hard as it is to say it, go your separate ways and long distant relationships NEVER work, period. If you are both at the same Uni but doing different subjects/courses, then it will be cool. You can both see each-other at lunch and all and if you live their, see each-other of a night.

Hey there,

Never is bit of a strong word, especially considering quite a few people have posted examples of when long distance relationships have worked, just before your post. It's hard no doubt, but in some cases a year or 3 of it is worth it.

Just my 2 cents.
CS-Dude

P.S
I just got bad repped in this thread for being old? Harsh much?:rolleyes:

[Barmi]

my brother and his girlfriend both started uni this year. i don't know how far he's gone lol but she's gone to a uni round here, but they're staying together (i think :S). lol he tells me nowt .

Aye. About 200 miles away.

If you are going to different Uni's then as hard as it is to say it, go your separate ways and long distant relationships NEVER work, period.

Shut the hell up and come back when you can justify what you are saying.

[MissAlice]

Long distance relationships can work, providing both want it to. Both parties have to be committed and with today's technology it's so easy to stay in touch, even if you don't have access to a computer we nearly all have mobile phones. The cost of a few texts each day isn't going to break the bank... if you care about someone enough, you will make the effort!

[Earthquake]

Just become friends, its best to do without all the complications, and I garentee you, you will find someone else, in uni or not.

[Barmi]

Aye. About 200 miles away.

Shut the hell up and come back when you can justify what you are saying.

Sorry for being so rude. Alice put what I meant in a much more polite way.

Long distance relationships can work, providing both want it to. Both parties have to be committed and with today's technology it's so easy to stay in touch, even if you don't have access to a computer we nearly all have mobile phones. The cost of a few texts each day isn't going to break the bank... if you care about someone enough, you will make the effort!

[Suspective]

Good Luck with What Route - You Take

Have You Thought of staying at the Same University!

[Ramones]

When i first started thinking about it i thought, i really want to try and make it work and go to the same place and it'll be great. But i talked to her a little and she said she'd like to make it work but if we want to go somewhere we shouldn't hold each other back, and i agreed.

I think iv'e changed my mind a little now, we've been together not that long, and it's my first proper relationship really. I think i want to go somewhere and do my own thing and meet other people, which is probably the best way to look at it i think. I'm pretty sure she wouldn't go somewhere just because i'm going, and same for me, and looking at both of our choices we maybe have one in common and that would be highly conditional.

As far as long distance relationships go, i think it can work for some people. But personally for us two i don't think it would, there's a trust factor and rarely seeing each other, i don't think we're serious enough to make it work. And we have agreed that. :8