I LOVE this girl...

[kuzkasate]

Seriously dude, let it go for a while.

My mate fancies his mates (Andy) Girlfriend (Nicky), both of them flirt constantly and Andy eventually found out. He split up with Nicky and never spoke to my mate (Jordi). Adding insult to injury, Jordi and Nicky now both go out, after two days after Andy & Nicky split.

Just don't do it mate, let them two be. Don't get in between them, don't make it turn out for the worse.

From what I gather, your mate and his girlfriend aren't in the Worlds best relationship and I think it's a matter of time before they give each other up. Don't do a Joey (out of Friends) and give it an hour before you get together, give it a month. In that 30 odd days they'll both move on and that's the time you make a move (that's if you're still interested in her then and she likes you).

Yh, I get you but... my mate doesnt like her at ALL. He keeps on saying how annoying she is. But he just CANT dump her. He isnt like that... he cant dump her anyway (even tho he did once) but thats not my point, he doesnt like her at all and he is WAITING until SHE dumps him! They barely speak anymore... And btw I did give it time before when they split up... but I was too late. So...

[VirtualG]

DATE HER FRIEND!!! which ever one is the hottest... That would probably make her jealous, worked for me.

[Charli]

she's playing games with your feelings and by the sounds of it, she's got you eating out of the palm of her hand.
try not to be the soppy, 'easy' guy. coming from a girl who's had experience with that type of guy, i can tell you, honestly, its not who you want to be in this scenario. girls enjoy the chase too so play hard to get (even if you want to tell her you love her, want to give her the world, etc.. DONT).
by the sounds of it, she sees you as a friend. as for her flirting with you - honestly - that's probably all it is. flirting. for fun. im sure she enjoys knowing she could go to you whenever she's down in the dumps and you would just welcome her with open arms. its a security thing...
think about this though.. when has she shown REAL consideration for your feelings? she knows you really really like her, so why is she still flirting? she sounds pretty cruel to me.
i say go out and get yourself nice haircut/hobby (anything to lift your spirits and confidence) and do your own thing.
watch her come running.
i personally think you deserve better, so hopefully when you go on missionifewithoutcruelgirl you will find a nice lass who gives you the love and respect you deserve!
p.s ditch your best friend. if my best friend dated someone i liked, then kept playing them like your 'best friend' has done, i'd probably never talk to her again.. or for a good few months at least.

[Frank459]

I was in this situation, but it was with 2 girls (both good friends) and a boy. Basic structure of the story (The girls are friends too):

Girl 1 + Boy > Argue, breakup > Girl 2 + Boy > Argue, breakup > Girl 1 + Boy > Argue breakup > Girl 2 + Boy > Argue breakup > [Repeat this for one/two more stage(s). My arm is killing me, its late.]

I liked 1 of the girls and every time she split up with the guy, I just never had the confidence to ask her anything. When I do wake up and think "Sod it. Ima ask her" I find that shes going back out with the guy (Who ISNT a friend of mine and is a big up-your-own-beeep.) This crushed my confidence even further that after the first time, I just left it and made no attempt to resurface the matter.

Then one lunch time they both started talking about what color br- wait, thats a different story. [Hehehehe, they both like cyan]

Ok, to continue: She even showed signs of liking me after the second break up and I realised this, but then just thought "Nah, give it a week she'll be going back out with him" and whatdya know, she does.

Well to come onto the end of Franks marvellous let-downs and self confidence issues story, dont give up like I did. Find somebody else because you'll end up like me. Yeah oh course, you'll have friends [before any of you suggested I didnt -.-' ] just DONT let yourself be put off by this one girl, or you'll never have that courage to go up to any others and tell them how you really feel.


I cant really give advice, because im not exactly the one to be asking but just some words that people have told me. Dont let yourself get let down by that one girl when there are plenty others around. Never let yourself just think "Ill wait a little longer." As soon as you get signs of them liking you - GO FOR IT.

[Vause]

leave her be.
if love hurts then it won't work, she's hurt you already and your not even with her. just do things to take your mind off her.

[rokstar]

that sounds really immature
how old r u guys?

[Soy]

ask her out for godsake

[kuzkasate]

ask her out for godsake

Shes going out with my best friend!
And now I asked her she said she likes me.
Im so confused right now!

[Jam]

Goodbye friendship, like mine did in a somewhat similar situation.

[Nxrissa]

stop waisting your time being smittern over her.
sorry but its true.
im sure you can do with someone better let them get on with it. there the ones gonna be depressed in the end. but seriously i think you can proberly do better than her no matter what she or you looks like.