I LOVE this girl...

[kuzkasate]

Basically, she is going out with my best friend. My best friend knows I like her and hes cool with it, he even tried to get my with her once. But she likes me also...

The thing is, there relationship is "faulty" if you like. They go out, dump eachother, tears and fights. Then again.

Now about 2 weeks ago, he dumped her and I was like RIGHT Im gonna ask her out. But I didnt feel that it was the right moment because of her splitting up with her boyfriend and her uncle died... So I thought leave it.

So finally in a week or so, I decide to ask her. She says "sorry im with lewis." (my best friend.) So I got pretty annoyed. Then I say to her, dont tell anyone I wanted to ask you out... and she starts going nuts like WHY NOT HUH?! EMBARRASED ARE YOU, BECAUSE IM A SKET? (Sorry for the language.) I obv didnt mean it in that way.

So we didnt talk for quite a bit and she finally apologised. The next day, I ask her if she likes me. She said that she doesnt in that way anymore. Only as a friend... but through all that I had to take from her, all the fighting, tears and arguements. I still love her... but she doesnt. And now my best friend and she are still going out.

Im just so heartbroken and dont know what to do...

[Pyroka]

Sorry to break your heart further, but she loves me more.

[Immenseman]

Awww man. At the moment you'll think she's the only one out there. She doesn't seem like she is really taking your feelings into consideration and unfortunately it's clear she likes your best friend more. You should just aim in getting a better relationship with her at the moment, just talking loads, cracking jokes, being yourself - you have nothing to lose. Just remember you will always find someone who is right for you and they don't come around that often. As and when they do grab it with two hands because if you hang around they could be gone before you know it.

[colourpot]

Sorry to break your heart further, but she loves me more.

you wot.

[TotalShambles]

Yeah as Jake said, dont just keep your eyes set on her.. If she doesnt like you sorry but i dont think she will start liking you again, she might but she doesnt seem the type that cares.. Im only saying what i think from what you wrote as i have never met her..

Keep ya chin up is what i say!

[leah]

She seems like she's really selfish to treat you like that to be honest, If I were you i'd forget her and move on, your friendship is far more important with your mate than she is.

[kuzkasate]

Thanks everyone... but she does seem a LOT of a cow doesnt she?
But like, when ever I see her or look at her she is always staring at me and when we make eye contact she smiles and sometimes giggles. Im like... okay and start to giggle. But she can just sit there talking to me for hours and we are really close.

The worst thing is, she told me she doesnt like my mate much anymore because she saw his "true-colours" but then again, my friend said he doesnt like HER much. And when ever I am with her, she starts flirting and even once tried to come on to me... but I wouldnt allow it because shes going out with my mate...

Its so hard. Sometimes, my friend is like "Oh I cba with her today" and doesnt even say bye or anything to her.

Its just so PAINFUL. I mean, they dont even like eachother that much... so whats the point? Its not going to lead anywhere?

[Browney]

shes your best mates gf.
jesus christ. you love her, but you don't know what love is. trust me, I've been in your position, your mates are so much more important than going after some girl who you "love." And besides, she doesn't like you like that and ruining your mates relationship won't help things at all. No matter what she felt in the past, you have to focus on now. and now, she doesn't want you. Sorry to be so blunt.

[kuzkasate]

shes your best mates gf.
jesus christ. you love her, but you don't know what love is. trust me, I've been in your position, your mates are so much more important than going after some girl who you "love." And besides, she doesn't like you like that and ruining your mates relationship won't help things at all. No matter what she felt in the past, you have to focus on now. and now, she doesn't want you. Sorry to be so blunt.

Thats what I dont understand... I ask her if she likes me she says no, then yes then no but then again acts like she DOES like me! Im confused...

[Arron]

Seriously dude, let it go for a while.

My mate fancies his mates (Andy) Girlfriend (Nicky), both of them flirt constantly and Andy eventually found out. He split up with Nicky and never spoke to my mate (Jordi). Adding insult to injury, Jordi and Nicky now both go out, after two days after Andy & Nicky split.

Just don't do it mate, let them two be. Don't get in between them, don't make it turn out for the worse.

From what I gather, your mate and his girlfriend aren't in the Worlds best relationship and I think it's a matter of time before they give each other up. Don't do a Joey (out of Friends) and give it an hour before you get together, give it a month. In that 30 odd days they'll both move on and that's the time you make a move (that's if you're still interested in her then and she likes you).