Not believing in life much no more

[chilloutrich]

In my view, life is one big test! at some point in everyone's life they go through bad parts and good parts- this may be a bad part, but i promise you however dark life is looking there IS light at the end of the tunnel! I can understand why you are feeling down at the moment but unfortunatly this is what life throws at us and we have to live with it . With school don't let it get you down, its only school- it gets important when your older, enjoy school. If you make mistakes just have a quiet word with your teacher at the end of the lesson once everyone has left and tell them what you are struggling with and what you can't understand, they will help you. With your parents splitting up, i understand this is a horrid thing to have to go through, although i don't have the experience of this i have gone through it with my friends- it may not be as bad as it seems, you may not see your dad as much but when you do make the most out of it, remember they will both still love you no matter what, if not more! Going back to school, with you being excluded at school, thats school for you- everyone misbehaves at some point, even the boffins! :rolleyes: . You say your life is shatterd- well its not, its just a dip in your life, get through this and you will be on a high! Teachers may get on your nerves, you may think they are out to get ya- mate thats teachers, its one of those things you just have to put up with, remember how ever much you want to yell at them- keep it in, it will just make matters worse. Life is on a low for you at the moment , NO way is suicide a way out- do not take this route, you have your whole life infront of you! Personally i have had problems in life since 1999, you get throught it and it makes you a stronger person! Honestly if you ever need anyone to talk to about these things, i will be there for you, i will give you my time if its needed! Life is a test- everyone has problems, its just one of those things - be happy, life is too short to be miserable all the time, live life to the full and party hard!

[Butcher11]

I've had problems since 1997 lol and no although we ALL think of suicide, nobody knows if heaven is even worth it

[-JT-]

your right, but personally i dont belive in an after life.

[Max]

I feel the same way as you feel mate.
School is going rubbish, social life isnt good either.
I think its something you need to get. If you get through that stage you'll be stronger, you will feel like you can handle the world.
Life is the most presious thing that is given us, though it can be a bítch too.
Keep on going, don't give up. Thats what I'm gonna do now, I cant just stop neither can you.

We've all been through the stage in our lives, where we feel there isn't much point in it. Don't give up. Be optimistic. Things always sort themselves out, and in time everything seems so much better and you can't believe what you were thinking. Keep going, keep trying and you will achieve so much more than you thought you could. If you look at life in the right perspective it's the greatest thing you can imagine.

Damn right Jane
There isn't anything else then life..Its presious, And you only get it once.
Look at the good things, keep on going and you will get through. Theres so much more to do in life, so much more then whats going on now.
Life is everthing, its hard and its beautiful.

[Jacko2kn3]

Even though Fridayz is feeling better, this is a pretty intresting topic.

I fell out with two great mates (one who I love more than anything) last night, and I was talking to Properclone about it. I wouldn't have the bottle to do such a thing...

...Plus I know EVERYONE would miss me, and it would become a National Holiday of Remembrance, and no one would be able to keep on living without me, therefore the fate of the world rests on my shoulders...

Ok, so I over-exaggurated a bit, and Properclone gave me the "You are only young, you have your whole life ahead of you" speech, then I told him I wouldn't kill myself ever, and he shutted up

Then I watched the end of Desperate Housewives and went to bed.

Today is an example of light at the end of the tunnel. I made up with ONE of the friend (not the one I love) which is good, and I'm pleased with myself

[GommeInc]

I am legally dead

[*.Glitter.Rip.*]

This reason of getting depressed is because of not thinking positivly. Life is hard and thats a fact. No matter how hard it gets you know you need to get your goal. Hormaones are a reason too. Stress is also a reason. You need to think with yourself and think what you would like. Would you like to be a good sucess or another battery chicken? If you got what you wanted that would be brilliant and you could look back and see what to made your way thru. School is a big reason why and meeting all those people with bad attitudes make your contions become worse but never give up. You need to be alone in quiet thinking about all these reasons and what are you going to school for? What could you do to show everyone that you are worth something. Everyone can become something if they try otherwise they are losers. You would rather be a surgen saving lives having good pay than being a cleaner trying to clean up from everyone elses rubbish.

If you need help listen to ambiant music. Never take drugs. Acheive your goals in life! Be someone.

[Fawne]

I've been through your situation many times, and i bet so have other people.
You can't give up, you have to keep going, there is no other option other then that. (There's loads, but this is the best way)
It's not yours nor anyone else's time to give up.
After all we're all on so called 'Borrowed Time', we have to use it to the extreme, we have to live our lives to the best they can be. You may not have found your purpose in life, or maybe even think you don't have one. But there's always a purpose for everyone, you just have to be upbeat and find it somehow. Even I'm looking for mine still, i can't figure it out, but i now believe that there has to be, otherwise there would be no meaning to life. Nothing would make sense. Besides everyone goes through a mid-life crisis, it's a time when you feel there's too much on your shoulder's. You need to fight back, be strong, confident and upbeat.

[Convictions]

Many's a time ive been like that but i had a few very good mates talk me out of it. Ive also seen a friend attempt hanging themselves, not nice. Btw it never worked thank god.

Anyway more on topic, almost everyone i know has thought about it, and i bet everyone in the world from possible 1985 + has thought about.Like someone else has said, keep going, you never know whats around the corner.

Dunno if this is relevant but its saved me a few times.


If

If you can keep your head when all about you
Are losing theirs and blaming it on you;
If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you,
But make allowance for their doubting too;
If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,
Or, being lied about, don't deal in lies,
Or, being hated, don't give way to hating,
And yet don't look too good, nor talk too wise;

If you can dream - and not make dreams your master;
If you can think - and not make thoughts your aim;
If you can meet with triumph and disaster
And treat those two imposters just the same;
If you can bear to hear the truth you've spoken
Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,
Or watch the things you gave your life to broken,
And stoop and build 'em up with wornout tools;

If you can make one heap of all your winnings
And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss,
And lose, and start again at your beginnings
And never breath a word about your loss;
If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew
To serve your turn long after they are gone,
And so hold on when there is nothing in you
Except the Will which says to them: "Hold on";
If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,
Or walk with kings - nor lose the common touch;
If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you;
If all men count with you, but none too much;
If you can fill the unforgiving minute
With sixty seconds' worth of distance run -
Yours is the Earth and everything that's in it,
And - which is more - you'll be a Man my son!

Ive highlighted in red the bits i find most helpful whenever im down

[G-flow]

I resort to listening to music , it seems to help a lot. I sometimes feel that way but i just have to handle it.