Your relationships and your sexuality

[Inseriousity.]

Are you still uncomfortable to admit to others your sexuality? if so, why?
Do you feel you need to hide your feelings because it make effect others or how you are treated?

I've been a bit more open about it lately 'jokingly' flirting with a shop assistant. However, I haven't come out of the closet as they say and have no intention of doing it either. Because I'm bi, it's probably easier. The reason I'm staying in the closet is because my dad is really homophobic. I assumed it was an 'old generation' thing but we were watching eastenders and christian and syed were kissing and my dad was like 'eurgh thats sick' and my nana/granddad were saying 'its their choice, why should it bother you so much' so obviously not! So if I was to come out, I imagine 95% of my family would be alright with it with a small minority not happy at all - unfortunately, it's the small minority that have the power to chuck me out the house!

[Casanova]

I believe you're wrong. I thought the same with my dad and he dealt with it. And the worse that happens is you have to stand on your own feet yourself, that's not necessarily a bad thing .

Says the guy still living at home paying digs!

[Inseriousity.]

Your dad isn't my dad (LOLOL that's not meant to sound creepy) though and everyone deals with things differently. I think:

"if you were gay, id disown you"

is a big enough incentive to stay in my warm closet. I don't think anything will change my mind unless I just happen to find 'the one' and he's a boy. I haven't yet.