I need a bit of advice.

[Glen Coco]

It's difficult to deliberately cut people out of your life rather than just a natural drifting apart but he is bad news and you continuing to see and be his friend is just approval for his behaviour. He will continue, it will not get better, you will not change him if you stick around. Get out while you've still got your dignity before he pisses all on that too.

So do you think he'll change if I don't stick around?

[Inseriousity.]

It can go either way, depends on him really.
He will either continue as he is, not blame himself or he'll realise you're not around anymore, not going to put up with his behaviour and try to be a better person. Judging by what he says though, I would suggest it's most likely to be the former not the latter and it's better for you if you just move on. Loyalty is admirable so find someone else who would actually value your friendship rather than taking advantage of it.

[Glen Coco]

It can go either way, depends on him really.
He will either continue as he is, not blame himself or he'll realise you're not around anymore, not going to put up with his behaviour and try to be a better person. Judging by what he says though, I would suggest it's most likely to be the former not the latter and it's better for you if you just move on. Loyalty is admirable so find someone else who would actually value your friendship rather than taking advantage of it.

It just sucks, we used to be such good friends and there really was something between us but he was always determined he didn't want a relationship. Then after all out arguments he was like "you used to be someone I wanted and was starting to think 'why not?' with."
I don't know if that's true or he's just messing with my head to make me feel bad

[Inseriousity.]

It's past tense so yeah he's just twisting the knife there.

[sex]

just ditch him hes bad for you
theres no point in delaying what will probably happen in a few months or years and just end up being even more upset where as if you cut contact now you can just avoid all that

[Glen Coco]

it's still gonna be upsetting. I probably should have cut it off a long time ago but this has literally been going on for nearly a year now

[buttons]

just cause something is difficult doesn't mean it isn't the best thing to do. it's not going to be easy but it's either cut him off n be miserable for a few months or continue talking to him n be miserable for longer. always possibility he cuts u off before u do then ur miserableness will be even worse than if u did it urself

[Glen Coco]

just cause something is difficult doesn't mean it isn't the best thing to do. it's not going to be easy but it's either cut him off n be miserable for a few months or continue talking to him n be miserable for longer. always possibility he cuts u off before u do then ur miserableness will be even worse than if u did it urself

hmm yeah, we've both tried to do that. i think we longest we went was 2 weeks where we weren't friends, now it's just a bit awkward

[Demi]

You need to leave him, don't contact him for anything than just friends.
It's clear he doesn't want to have a relationship and definitely doesn't feel the same...

Cut your losses now before it gets worse, you'll always find someone you deserve later on!

[FlyingJesus]

HE PISSED ON YOUR CAR why is there even a question of staying with him that is hidz