I need a bit of advice.

[Glen Coco]

In a nutshell, I have a friend. Male - we were a bit more than friends but not a relationship for quite a while.
however, through this time he slept with other people, went on dates, texted other girls ect. we started to argue, big arguments. we both said horrible things.

we'd usually get through them. Constantly sort of said we're done with each other, a few weeks later we'll be back to talking, be all cuddly again, be constantly told he doesn't want me that sorta thing.
Christmas, we had a huge argument, I said some bad things to him, he told me he wanted nothing to do with me. 2 days later we're speaking again, but there's constant digs at me, all the time. Calling me a *REMOVED*, saying i ruin everything, that he doesn't want to see me, ect.
He has done some nice things since we argued but he's also done horrible things, like weeing on my car.
I don't know what to do, I've tried to talked to him but he's taken it the wrong way and is now angry at me.
I just don't know what to do.

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[Inseriousity.]

Break away from this friendship. Not worth the aggro.

[buttons]

if someone pissed on my car id rather they not be my friend nor lover

[Shar]

That's not cool, he doesn't sound worth it.

[sex]

is this taryn

[BlueEyedSarah]

It sounds like a constant merry go round of headache, heartache and drama, honestly in my opinion I think its best to end this friendship, he sounds rude and immature, he has made it clear to you that he is not interested in you relationship wise so move on, even if he is cuddly with you it is just an ego boost to him, he carries on going back to you for the ego boost, he is not serious about this friendship with you otherwise he would not be rude and disrespectful by doing what he did to your car! Like I said, end it now before it gets worse for you and it gets too late to get away from this situation.

[Empired]

Life's too short. If he's not making you happy then he's not worth your time, surely :S I know it's easier said than done but you'll be better off in the long run to just get him out of your life.

[Glen Coco]

is this taryn

no it's not taryn :S why would it be taryn?


it's just really really hard. we were so close but I can't cope with being told that everything's my fault - found out last night he's also kissed another one of my friends. he doesn't realise that what he does hurts people.

[Futz]

remove the negative from your life

[wixard]

no it's not taryn :S why would it be taryn?


it's just really really hard. we were so close but I can't cope with being told that everything's my fault - found out last night he's also kissed another one of my friends. he doesn't realise that what he does hurts people.

girl get rid of him now! he is playing you, trust me i know it is so so difficult to cut communication off with someone you really really like and i'm not strong enough to do it for myself yet but i urge you to do it now! he is just going to end up causing you so much heartbreak and make you cry at night and he probably doesn't even care, he's trying to shift all the blame on you when you've done nothing