I can't get over my ex-girlfriend

[Zak]

Just carry on with life and it will happen. You really should have no communication with her, because having 'minimal' communication won't do anything to help.

This is the best advice.

It took me two years to get over my ex. In that time I never had any contact with her.. but now we're able to meet up and see each other. Not sure on her feelings for me but I don't feel the same way about her any more, I've moved on. Time is a great healer my friend, stay strong

Personally I'd cut all contact. It worked for me.. and those who're telling you to chill out or what ever either do not understand how it feels / or are very strong people. your feelings are natural.

[Empired]

Sounds hideous but there's nothing you can do. I know it's such a cliche and a really annoying thing to say but time really is the best healer. You're just gonna have to keep going and you'll start feeling better over time. Might help forcing yourself to think about something else whenever you catch yourself thinking about her too.

Also have you spoken to anyone about it in real life? If not, you need to find someone you really trust and just cry on them loads. You feel so stupid at the time but I found it really took a weight off my back when I'd been struggling with something for a long time. You're allowed to take off the brave face sometimes

[Joshirin]

get a hobby

[Lanyon]

This is the best advice.

It took me two years to get over my ex. In that time I never had any contact with her.. but now we're able to meet up and see each other. Not sure on her feelings for me but I don't feel the same way about her any more, I've moved on. Time is a great healer my friend, stay strong

Personally I'd cut all contact. It worked for me.. and those who're telling you to chill out or what ever either do not understand how it feels / or are very strong people. your feelings are natural.

The range of advice from different people is insane. It goes from "Just keep trying to get her back, show her much she truly means to you" All the way to "Just move far away from that city, get rid of every single distraction possbile" to "Bro, chill, it's not even such a big deal" to "Man, you're ****ed, just give up now"

Love & Relationships is just about the most complicated thing that humans have to deal with that I'm no where even close to understanding how it really works, but thankgod that it's so complicated because that's what makes life so god damn interesting! Thanks for your post

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get a hobby

Does chess count? I play that a lot

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Sounds hideous but there's nothing you can do. I know it's such a cliche and a really annoying thing to say but time really is the best healer. You're just gonna have to keep going and you'll start feeling better over time. Might help forcing yourself to think about something else whenever you catch yourself thinking about her too.

Also have you spoken to anyone about it in real life? If not, you need to find someone you really trust and just cry on them loads. You feel so stupid at the time but I found it really took a weight off my back when I'd been struggling with something for a long time. You're allowed to take off the brave face sometimes

I've spoken to many friends, people at work and my family and they are indeed very supportive and happy to talk it through but in the end they pretty much say either two things "You can do better than her" or "Just don't get back with her again".

[Joshirin]

The range of advice from different people is insane. It goes from "Just keep trying to get her back, show her much she truly means to you" All the way to "Just move far away from that city, get rid of every single distraction possbile" to "Bro, chill, it's not even such a big deal" to "Man, you're ****ed, just give up now"

Love & Relationships is just about the most complicated thing that humans have to deal with that I'm no where even close to understanding how it really works, but thankgod that it's so complicated because that's what makes life so god damn interesting! Thanks for your post

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Does chess count? I play that a lot

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I've spoken to many friends, people at work and my family and they are indeed very supportive and happy to talk it through but in the end they pretty much say either two things "You can do better than her" or "Just don't get back with her again".

I guess so, but it doesn't require much energy, using a lot of energy would be good relief etc

[sex]

its over deal with it. play some habbo and move on. she is probs. very worried that you are going to kill her since she blocked you from everything yet still find a way to contact her.