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    Tell your mum and dad right now. What you waiting for? GO! Tell them what you have just wrote in this post!

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    Dude if your going to kill yourself why dont you go and beat them up thats what id do, then they wont bully you, trust me just go out and beat them down man

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    Don't end your life. It really isn't worth it. If you think that telling them could put them through stress, killing yourself is only going to do the same but tenfold. Suicide is the easy way out, and it's everyone else that will suffer because of it.

    If you don't feel you can bring yourself to tell your parents face to face; write them a letter, let them see this thread, anything. Trust me when I say that telling them will only reap good things.

    Another thing that may help us to help you is by telling us what exactly the nature of the bullying is. Is there a particular reason they call you names, and what names do they call you? If you don't want to tell, that's fine, but it really would help.

    Good luck


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    Quote Originally Posted by Bear-Max
    Don't end your life. It really isn't worth it. If you think that telling them could put them through stress, killing yourself is only going to do the same but tenfold. Suicide is the easy way out, and it's everyone else that will suffer because of it.

    If you don't feel you can bring yourself to tell your parents face to face; write them a letter, let them see this thread, anything. Trust me when I say that telling them will only reap good things.

    Another thing that may help us to help you is by telling us what exactly the nature of the bullying is. Is there a particular reason they call you names, and what names do they call you? If you don't want to tell, that's fine, but it really would help.

    Good luck
    They just pick on me whenever they have the chance. I'm do not have a dissability or anything.

    The best way I can think of is getting my parents to see my post in this thread, but.. I just cant go down and say "i need you to read something".

    This is really hard.

    Quote Originally Posted by Shampoo
    Dude if your going to kill yourself why dont you go and beat them up thats what id do, then they wont bully you, trust me just go out and beat them down man
    I think i'll ignore that post. I'm not phiscally (and mentally) strong.

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    Quote Originally Posted by HelpMe
    They just pick on me whenever they have the chance. I'm do not have a dissability or anything.

    The best way I can think of is getting my parents to see my post in this thread, but.. I just cant go down and say "i need you to read something".

    This is really hard.



    I think i'll ignore that post. I'm not phiscally (and mentally) strong.
    Trust me, telling your parents will be your best choice, its a start. You've got to get into a routine of helping yourself now, its going to be tough but if you keep your mind stuck to it, you'll get through it.
    My parents always help me if I'm in trouble, they'll throw you a life line to help you all they can! Use that life line and beat your pain.

    #NekkLe

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    Quote Originally Posted by HelpMe
    Not sure if this is the right section to post this in or not. I have just registered this username because I feel uncomfortable about posting this with my regular forum name (which I have 4000+ posts with and is known around the forum).

    Ok, I'm in year 11. I have been bullied for most of my life. I have never told my parents anything about how I'm treated at school. The teachers are blind too it aswell.

    The bullying is mostly verbal (name calling, constant abuse, etc) bullying. Because of this, I have very few friends. I can't bare it anymore. I can't do anything, as they are alot "harder" than me, and telling teachers in the past has got me nowhere. The same things happen everyday. I get called names (no idea why), I get my stuff stolen in some cases, etc.

    I am going to have to make a decision very soon. Either I get help or I end my life. This has scarred me, and I cannot face it anymore. I am ready to end my life if changes are not made. I have no confidence anymore. I find it very hard to go out. No-one knows about this and how I feel. I cry at night, thinking of the abuse I would get the next day. Thinking of ways to prevent it (hurting myself, thinking of ways to end my life). I sometimes think to myself "theres only one year left to cope with" - but I don't think I'm strong enough anymore.

    I really need help. I can't just tell people, as I'm not confident anymore.

    I plan to end my life soon, unless things improve.

    Thanks for reading.

    EDIT: I do not have any dissabilities. I'm just 'normal' like the rest of you.

    Damn, dude, this has touched me just reading it... I'm really sorry for you..

    Tell your parents... Ask if you can move school, I dont suggest standing up to them if they are 'harder' than you. You should tell your parents, everything what has happened and how you feel, I know how you feel, most people who get bullied dont want to tell their parents as it will 'embarrase' them or make themselfs look stupid. It WONT make you look stupid, If your parents love you and care for you, they will try their hardest to move you away from these bullies or sort somthing out.

    Please contact me in PM's if anything else happens.. I'd like you to keep me informed with everything what happens.

    Life doesnt always revolve round school, instead of crying yourself to sleep you could think about the fun you can have with your family.

    Dont try anything stupid, dont even self harm yourself.. It wont make you feel better..

    If you want I could find you some helpline numbers and send them to you in a private message?
    Dont kill yourself either. Just think about how the people who really love you, care for you. Just imagine how you would feel.
    Thing about what you can do when you leave school.

    PLEASE, PLEASE keep me informed on what else happens. I'd like to talk to you more about this.. And remember just to ask if you need any helpline numbers i'd be happy to google some up for you..

    David~
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    Tell your mum
    this guy like 4 years older than me tried to beat me up
    But i told my mum like a good boy and she went out and threatened him O.o
    But now hes scared of me
    barharhar

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    Quote Originally Posted by Shampoo
    Dude if your going to kill yourself why dont you go and beat them up thats what id do, then they wont bully you, trust me just go out and beat them down man
    NO DONT GET AS BAD AS THEM !
    MAYBE WRITING A NOTE TO YOUR PARENTS MAY HELP AS U WONT HAVE TO CONFRONT THEM





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    Quote Originally Posted by Owen
    Tell your mum
    this guy like 4 years older than me tried to beat me up
    But i told my mum like a good boy and she went out and threatened him O.o
    But now hes scared of me
    barharhar
    Lol^ thats how my mum or dad would react if someone was bullying or in any way assulting me :p
    "Your mother is a Nutter!"

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    Quote Originally Posted by Owen
    Tell your mum
    this guy like 4 years older than me tried to beat me up
    But i told my mum like a good boy and she went out and threatened him O.o
    But now hes scared of me
    barharhar
    but ur just doing what u were scared of

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