Feeling Suicidal and worse :S

[lew!]

tbh, if you are REALLY sad ect,

wear horrible clothes ect, then your bound to.
Just wear some nice clothes, Go to the gym now and again and train so when they do have a go at you, just punch them or something, they wont pick on u again! =]

[hit1]

They pick on you because your small i get it and im small and quite quiet. As my mum used to say "they are only jealous" If there quite tall then why don't you tell em to pick on soemone their own size? ALso they just pick on you because your small and some taller people think that small people are weak and easy to pick on. I don't think there doing all of this because you have ginger hair, but just because your small and an easy target because as i said they think small people are weak. Maybe just ignore them or just stay right away from them? theres no point dying your hair. My mates ginger and he just jokes around when someone calls him it try doing that maybe they'll ease off on the ginger remarks.. If none of that helps then tell a teacher and im sure they'll keep a good eye on them Hope that helps

I lol'd. Whyd they be jealous?

Anyway ignore em, stop in 5/10 years dont dye your hair tho =D You wont be classed A naturaul.

[-Soph-]

I like ginger hair, just act like you find it ammusing, whatever you do, don't show them that it gets to you and upsets you, if you do what I say, they'll soon get fed up and give up.

[Munky]

Ignore them - tell someone - fightback - dye your hair.

Dying his hair would show signs of weakness.

[GoldenMerc]

With the ginger:
The best thing to do is ignore,When was getting bullied i didnt the stupidest things and quitted school for 4-5 months,The hardest thing i have EVER done is went back in,If you just ignore them they will pick on someone else.

With them pushing you and attacking you,Ether ignore,hit them back,tell a teacher and your parents.

[lilvix2k7]

dont dislike ur ginger hair flaunt it! go around school with your head held high ! my mum has ginger hair and im well jealous ! i have 2 die my hair blonde all the time and then you get roots coming through its disgusting! u should be pround of your hair its gorgeous and it will always stay the same colour be proud and when people laugh and call u ginger jus think about their hair and laugh to urself because yours will always be a gorgeous colour

[Ostinato]

I have ginger hair, and Every sinble day of school I rather get left out cos of it, or Called Ginner etc..
I makes me think that im different, and that i shouldnt be here. I some times want to take a knife into school and Stab every one who has said something about me. Now I know how murderers Start, by getting bullied cos of having a different coloured hair :S
This is the main reason I go on Habbo etc.. cos I know people wont Judge me cos I have Ginger hair, What should I do?

Also, Its not just name calling, I get:
- Pused around (Im small)
- Wacked
- Attacted

Just because Im Quiet and Im a Ginner, well thats there reason

Okay. First of all, just because you have a certain colour of hair and maybe arn't as confident as other people - it is no excuse to be, or accept, bullying. Deep down, you know yourself you are being bullied - so why are you putting up with it? I suggest you go and speak to someone you can trust - whether it be a parent, teacher or family friend. Just explain the situation to them, that at school you are being pushed and attacked and you feel it is because your hair and because your a bit quiet. Trust me - telling someone will help as I have seen happen with people I know myself.

I understand you may be a bit apprehensive in the sense "If I tell it'll get worse" but a lot of the time that isn't the case. If, after you tell, the bullying does continue then simply go and tell someone again. Eventually, these people will get the message that they can't just bully someone.

Always remember, a bully has usually been bullied themselves. Although physically you may be weaker - mentally you are stronger as you do not need to go around attacking people to make yourself feel big.

Finally, suicide is never the answer to your problems. It is simply the cowards way out and you will not only be hurting yourself, but your family and friends. You need to learn to stand up to, face and overcome your problems in life - and this is the first big chance for you to do so. By commiting suicide it is simply a case of running away and letting the bullies win - so don't. Show them your not going to let them beat you, and tell someone.

Don't worry, thousands of children get bullied every day of their life at school - so you arn't alone. I know it's hard, but you just need to stick in there, tell someone and overcome the lot of it. There IS a whole bigger and much more enjoyable life ahead of you, so please do not give up on it.

[DCeption]

I like having ginger hair Makes me differnt. My mates **** around which is funny, and i have a laugh back at them. Just get a decent hair style. I got bullied by a group of lads, cause im ginger, so i just hit the sods They soon learnt to stop.

But i dont think being ginger is just your problem. I have alot of mates at skool etc. I think you maybe need to socialise more, and become more outgoing.

[Throne Sofa]

Maybe do something crazy with your hair so people don't see your gingerness when they look at your hair they see and comment on your crazy hairstyle insted.

[plastiKKstars]

they're are idiots.
i'd say worst, but it has a stupid filter.

i love ginger/red hair, whatever you want to call it.
i really want that colour hair and when im older i want to dye it that colour :]
i hope that makes you feel better for a start, because it's the truth.
these people that are making fun of you could be jealous tbh, or just think they are being big and clever.
nobody should get left out because of their colour hair.
you should really tell somebody about it, if you haven't already.
they can really help.
you can call childline on 0800 11 11, to talk about it if you want to.
or you could just go on their website www.childline.org.uk.
tell a close friend, relative, teacher. just talk to somebody about it and how your feeling.
even talk to the bullies about it. it may help. it may make them realise that what they doing is totally wrong and they should NOT be treated ANYBODY the way they are treating you.
learn to stand up for yourself. now i know that is easier said, well, i this case typed than done. but it really will help you and build your confidence up.
next time they push you around, tell them to stop, tell them that what they're doing isn't right, and that they should know what it is like to be in your shoes. and if they did, i'm sure they'd hate it. and realise how much pain they are putting you through.
remember you ALWAYS have us online to help you get through your problems.

look over the people that are bullying you.
be proud to be ginger/red.
and be proud to be who you are.
learn to make new friends.

if you need to, move schools.
dye your hair.
if it makes you feel ANY better.
but you shouldn't have to, just because people are teasing you about it/teasing you.
so just tell someone.
thats the best thing you can do.
and get it sorted out.

xo.