My Stepdad Rubbing me the Wrong Way

[Judas]

@Judas, I make it each morning when I get up.

That has nothing to do with what I said, I'm not having a go at you I'm just really curious as to why you think your mum should be the one to make your bed? Even if you didn't ruin it, you're the one that sleeps in it, so if you're not gonna ask them two to make it, then have some responsibility and do it yourself. You act like it's a chore, when it's only going to benefit you.

[AgnesIO]

With all due respect, from what I have read, you are in the wrong.

Your step dad is right. Should he just leave your mess that yo seem to make in the kitchen? And why the **** should your mum have to make your bed - I don't give two flying ***** if it was your two step-siblings - it certainly wasn't your mum!

Also, instead of locking yourself in your room why not go outside? It would mean you get away from your two step-siblings, and get some fresh air. Sorry, but from what you have said, I think you are being really unfair and need to get a grip. There are worse things in your life than having to make a bloody bed - to be quite honest I think it is insulting that you really want him out of your life over such a tiny thing..

However, why not kindly ask them to not go on your bed? Why not talk to your mum and explain your feelings - although to be honest I think you just don't like the step dad - so want him gone.

I thought my post was giving good advice, and you seem to have missed it. SO here you go.

[Niall!]

Hahahahahahahahahahahahahaha

Oh my god, can't believe I've just found this thread hahahahahahaha

But seriously you're a selfish brat. Make your own bed, clean your own room and shut up about it.

[@K]

If a mod sees this, close this thread because all these *REMOVED* aren't helping at all.

@Judas, I make it each morning when I get up.

@Everyone saying life gets harder, Yeah I do kind of know that. And I know regardless of what I do I'm going to have a **** adulthood.

@@K, 6 months isn't bad. That's a light amount really. Try 6 years, from 10-15 different people. And if I tell them to get out my stepdad will just tell me off for being nasty to them. Because it's his fault they have nothing else to do.

@Kyle, I am no invalid. So what if I was? They're still equal people ffs. And I dont ******* order my mum around. I ask her if she will and some nights she'll say no. Dont put words into my mouth that I evidently did NOT say.

@Spuds, Not got anything to say really, except that yes, he is allowed to tend to his sick child. When I'm ill he actually tells me off because I'm causing hassle and missing school.

If it will make you lot feel better *REMOVED* I'm going to put a notice to knock before coming in, and that those two can have 3 hrs a day in my room.

Edited by xxMATTGxx (General Manager): Please do not be rude towards other forum members.

I have no idea what your on about with 6 months and 6 years, I'm drunk and lazy, but if it is to do with bullying, isn't that showing you something? Grow a pair between the legs, because if you don't you are going to be eaten alive, mentally. And maybe you are being nasty to them when you TELL them to get out, try asking politely. I'm not being funny kid, you think you have problems, I worked 45 hours last week, and was taxed a THIRD of my wages, that is a REAL problem. You have asked for advice, people have told you that you are in the wrong, take that advice, stop being dumb, don't throw it back. If I get modded again for posting in this topic then wow, this isn't being nasty, but kid, stop being a *****, life is harsh, hard, and a lot more depressing than what you are experiencing right now. I'd hate to think what you are going to be like when your first girlfriend dumps you, you will come running back here saying 'ohhh I'm contemplating suicide again', and no one will care, because this topic is going to stick in everyone's mind. I am also still waiting to hear how old you are, and my bet is on 13/14, you come back and say your older, you will be lying or just EXTREMELY immature for your age, as you are acting like a 6 year old.

Starting with your comment to Judas and working down, you make it every morning, so you say, it takes 2 minutes, do it again.
Yes, you will have a **** adult life, because you are not helping yourself.
Already answered above.
Invalids are equal yes, but the implication was that you are lazy. By the sound of it, you attempt to order your mother around, she just wises up on occassions and doesn't give in to your ****.
I am willing to bed when you are 'sick' you are faking 90% of the time as you are being bullied at school, am I wrong? Doubt it.

WISE UP KIDDO LIFE IS A *****!

Also, any mods who would like to 'warn' me again, be my guest, but this is the only way people listen =)

[CrazyLemurs]

I have no idea what your on about with 6 months and 6 years, I'm drunk and lazy, but if it is to do with bullying, isn't that showing you something? Grow a pair between the legs, because if you don't you are going to be eaten alive, mentally. And maybe you are being nasty to them when you TELL them to get out, try asking politely. I'm not being funny kid, you think you have problems, I worked 45 hours last week, and was taxed a THIRD of my wages, that is a REAL problem. You have asked for advice, people have told you that you are in the wrong, take that advice, stop being dumb, don't throw it back. If I get modded again for posting in this topic then wow, this isn't being nasty, but kid, stop being a *****, life is harsh, hard, and a lot more depressing than what you are experiencing right now. I'd hate to think what you are going to be like when your first girlfriend dumps you, you will come running back here saying 'ohhh I'm contemplating suicide again', and no one will care, because this topic is going to stick in everyone's mind. I am also still waiting to hear how old you are, and my bet is on 13/14, you come back and say your older, you will be lying or just EXTREMELY immature for your age, as you are acting like a 6 year old.

Starting with your comment to Judas and working down, you make it every morning, so you say, it takes 2 minutes, do it again.
Yes, you will have a **** adult life, because you are not helping yourself.
Already answered above.
Invalids are equal yes, but the implication was that you are lazy. By the sound of it, you attempt to order your mother around, she just wises up on occassions and doesn't give in to your ****.
I am willing to bed when you are 'sick' you are faking 90% of the time as you are being bullied at school, am I wrong? Doubt it.

WISE UP KIDDO LIFE IS A *****!

Also, any mods who would like to 'warn' me again, be my guest, but this is the only way people listen =)

Yes, I am 14 in 2 weeks, good guess
I dont fake being ill, I never have. So dont be so sure in your posts that everything is going to be true...
Life's a *****, and I know it will be, but that's not now. I'll never get dumped because I'll never have a girlfriend. Who the **** would like me?
I'd prefer if comments I say to someone else, you keep your nose out of. They are not directed at you. And what is with you people and ordering? No I dont order my own mother around to do this. I ask her, there is a difference. Once again, you areputting words in my mouth that I did not say.

This is why I want this thread closed, because more people are taking the chance to ***** on me and tell me I'm weak and useless than to actually help me.

[@K]

You don't fake being ill, yet your 'bullied' at school, from the majority of cases I have seen with people being bullied, they fake being ill to get time off of school...
So because life is hard when you are an adult, that doesn't mean life is going to be hard for teenagers, is that what you are implying? I do not understand that. Life is hard from day one, it just gradually gets worse. Are you also implying that you are gay? Or are you just lacking that much self belief? If it's the latter, yeah, no one will like you, not because you are a whiny little *****, but also because self confidence is one thing that attracts people to you. Maybe this is your problem, you do not believe in yourself. Keep my nose out of what you say to other people? LOL, we are on the interwebzzzzzzzzzz, if I have my own views and opinions to get across, I WILL do it freely, because guess what, you cannot stop me. This is also yet MORE childish behaviour, saying you do not want people to comment on what you are saying to other people. I am not convinced that you ASK your mum, I think you whinge and whine at her, neither can you nor myself prove you do or don't. You haven't even replied to half of what I wrote previously, so I must have been right on certain things, like when I said to ASK your step siblings POLITELY to leave, instead of (what you are most likely doing) shouting at them.

You do know that suicide is a sin right? Nothing comes of it, only cowards (bar those terminally ill or paralysed) commit it. You hear stories of someone dying and their partner commits suicide, cowardness, can't handle life, cowardness, being bullied, cowardness. See where I am going with this? It is the easy way out. Sure, I have contemplated it, all because I wasn't able to find a job, but why would I do that? When I'd always get a job, it would just take time and now I'm working and happy.