Step Dad's Anger - Out of control.

[PriceTags]

What do you mean he can do what he wants with me on foreign land if I dont speak the language :S

Well if you ring 112, they might not be able to help. You'd need to get your French and Dutch up to scratch.

[indian8132]

Well if you ring 112, they might not be able to help. You'd need to get your French and Dutch up to scratch.

Im good at French, but dont know any Dutch

[PriceTags]

Im good at French, but dont know any Dutch

If he knows that, he'll wait until he's in Brussels. But the 112 person might know both.
You could also enter an ICE into your mobile phone. Eg. you put ICE1Mum in your phone book and her mobile number, ICE2Nan, and her phone number etc. Then if the worst thing happens, any people in an ambulance can ring your ICEs.

[indian8132]

If he knows that, he'll wait until he's in Brussels. But the 112 person might know both.
You could also enter an ICE into your mobile phone. Eg. you put ICE1Mum in your phone book and her mobile number, ICE2Nan, and her phone number etc. Then if the worst thing happens, any people in an ambulance can ring your ICEs.

Suppouse so, but still dont really wanna go.

[dirrty]

well dont go then, simple.

[indian8132]

well dont go then, simple.

Yea I know I did originally say I wasnt going to go when I said he offered

[Cajak]

Ah.. okay. How's you family feeling now without him ?

[indian8132]

Ok also its crap right this minutie. Around 10 mins ago, I was on the phone to my friend and when I got off mum was out and it was just me and him and my baby sister. He came up to me and said "Sean, you better watch yourself now, cause I can do anything to you right now and there isint any witnesses, and they wont believe you will they?"

Mums back and gone for a sleep, I told my nan and we talked but she went home and I dont know what to do. Thats a threat right? He keeps denying he said it but I swear he did! I should have recorded it!!!!!!!!!!!!! What can I do its really scaring me!

[Mikkaoz]

Never be ashamed of crying, it’s a natural thing. Sometimes I feel like I need to go and cry somewhere, heck I’ve done it at school. Crying doesn’t make you any less of a man, if your father said it does, he should just keep himself to himself, I bet he has cried before.

Now, you should phone a support line if you can’t speak to the police, for example you could speak to childline. I’ve done it when my friend killed herself, I needed advice and now it seems you need it. If you live in the UK, call 0800 11 11, that is a free number and you will not be charged for it.

NEVER be afraid to talk to someone, I’ve made that mistake before and it cost me. Scream it out, tell the whole world, don’t ever keep it to yourself.

If anything like this happens again, go straight to the police, no matter how foolish you feel, no matter what. Just do it, your life will improve. The police will ask you questions and ask you to come into see them. They’ll ask you what happened, be 100% honest with them, no matter what your father says, if you want it, they can put you in a safehouse, or keep your step father away from the house.

Be brave, and stay safe.

Edit: If you need someone to talk to, PM me. I'll always be here for you.

[indian8132]

Never be ashamed of crying, it’s a natural thing. Sometimes I feel like I need to go and cry somewhere, heck I’ve done it at school. Crying doesn’t make you any less of a man, if your father said it does, he should just keep himself to himself, I bet he has cried before.

Now, you should phone a support line if you can’t speak to the police, for example you could speak to childline. I’ve done it when my friend killed herself, I needed advice and now it seems you need it. If you live in the UK, call 0800 11 11, that is a free number and you will not be charged for it.

NEVER be afraid to talk to someone, I’ve made that mistake before and it cost me. Scream it out, tell the whole world, don’t ever keep it to yourself.

If anything like this happens again, go straight to the police, no matter how foolish you feel, no matter what. Just do it, your life will improve. The police will ask you questions and ask you to come into see them. They’ll ask you what happened, be 100% honest with them, no matter what your father says, if you want it, they can put you in a safehouse, or keep your step father away from the house.

Be brave, and stay safe.

Edit: If you need someone to talk to, PM me. I'll always be here for you.

Thank you +Rep

I told my nan, and she told her friend who used to be a police officer and they need proof he said it. I tried to record him on my phone saying it, and he caught me and denied it. Now when I say it when no one is there, he denies it then which means I dont think I can get proof of it.

This means, most probabbly he will hurt me and then he will get caught when it could have been dealt with earlier. He denies it to everyone, but everyone thankfully believes me. When I say everyone, I mean mum, nan, friends, parents friends who know etc.