wats mr important hangin wat ya m8s or ya bf or gf?

[sexy_gal13]

my bfs doin me head in cause all he does is hang with his m8s 24/7 neva wid me is it lk dat 4 every 1 wid sum1 ?
:s

[FrozenWhisper]

my bfs doin me head in cause all he does is hang with his m8s 24/7 neva wid me is it lk dat 4 every 1 wid sum1 ?
:s

Boys come and go but friends are forever. It's the same for guys. I'm with someone and I reackon we see enough of each other. It helps that one of his best mates is going out with one of my good mates.

[Cypher-]

My girlfriend was the same to me, A few times we were alone together she said to me about the amount of time I spend with my friends, I think now we have been out longer she realises Ive known them for life and I cant just abandon them, its probably the same for your fella.

Its the same the other way round too, my mates always used to say she had me under the thumb for the amount of time we spent together lol :p

[FrozenWhisper]

My girlfriend was the same to me, A few times we were alone together she said to me about the amount of time I spend with my friends, I think now we have been out longer she realises Ive known them for life and I cant just abandon them, its probably the same for your fella.

Its the same the other way round too, my mates always used to say she had me under the thumb for the amount of time we spent together lol :p

lol. I agree. I think you should spen 3/10 with your gf/bf and the rest with your mates. Don't mind me I'm feeling hyper for some reason

[sexy_gal13]

yeah but my bf is 3 yrs older than me n its hard but hes alwayz with his m8s hes neva wid me but hes sayin he wanna start a fam n dat

[Cypher-]

Its never a good idea to start a family young, Im guessing both of you are below 20, so its a bad idea lol :p Just tell him that you dont want to, explain how much it would cost ect ect with a kid and buying a place to live and food and clothes and paying all the bills!

Relationships at this age should be fun, not hard work :p

[sexy_gal13]

yes i c where ur cumin from in 16 in a few days hes 19 but i think it wud b nice but mayb when im a but older i wanna get a job n dat 1st if u know wat i mean but im scared if i have one will he still just go with his m8s?

[Cypher-]

Yeah i can understand you there, Im 18 right now and Im in college at the moment, just about to pick up another job because Im planning stuff in the summer etc etc Its best to get a job around your age I think, to go shopping, bars, clubs etc etc (not promoting alcoholic drinking of course) but I guess he should realise if hes 19 that a 16 year old wouldnt want to start a family.

He needs to mature a bit more perhaps and realise everything isnt about him. I learnt it the hard way from an ex-girlfriend

[sexy_gal13]

o right yeah i know where ur cumin from ive got my exams soon n i dont wanna fail them cause of the baby if u know wat i mean cause i wanan get a good job then settle down but i do wanna stay with him but im scared if i say i dont wanna ave a baby he will go n dump me

[Cypher-]

Im going out now so Ill post this before I go :p

Good luck with your exams firstly, Securing a future is the best thing and Im trying to sound as less nerdy as possible but if he dumps you because you dont want to have a baby then hes a git and it wouldnt of worked out. Just tell him, it will work out better either way, trust me. Have a good day!