Pfft, backstabber.

[Embean]

Right, over the past few weeks my friend and my other mate have been kind of upset over boy issues. My friend had been going out with this guy, and my other mate fancies him. Anyway, she got one of her friends to force him to dump his girlfriend (Frances).
Then the issue was brought up again today, where the guy started getting all worked up over which girl to choose because he liked them both.
And then the other girl, used to be my BEST friend, but now I really she's a backstabber, after getting her friends to force him to go out with her.
Frances has been crying most of school about it, and then the girl acts like she hasnt done anything and just smiles at me.
Then my other friend, Danni, she was really helping Frances, and then she goes and talks to the other girl like normal, after slagging her off (dont know if that word is filtered) and talking about what a backstabber she is.
Doing my head in and I want to help them both.
What shall I do, and what advice can I give to my mates?
Ta. 3

[Rawr]

I don't think 2 best mates should be fighting over a boy. You said he likes them both well he doesn't seem like a very faithful kind of guy, and not the sort to be fighting over. I would talk to them both and say it's stupid how there fighting and falling out over a boy (and the realtionship might not even last long) Friends should be more important than some boy.

[Embean]

Thank-you for the advice

[NekkLe]

I feel that love of a teenage can be taken a little too seriously. 13-18, we like to experience relationships and get to know the feeling of love, but experimenting with it can turn out unjoyful or joyful.

It seems as if the whole group your talking about seems to be in some sort of tiff (argumentative). The boy doesn't seem to be helping neither does a constant wave of gossip floating by..I think you all need to sit down or find some way of confronting each other in oreder to sort the whole situation out. Gossiping about one another won't help any better, so for a start try and make it clear to your freinds to calm it down. I think you'll know what to do after this..it'll come by instinct, as we are at the age where we like to discuss and argue a point just to make it clear.

Anyway, good luck and I hope it all works out