Help

[Blinger1]

Well... where should i start, okay the beginning!

I like a girl (ooh) and i wouldn't mind going out with her but i am kind of 'shy' to ask her out. I have gone swimming with her and one of my mates and i want to go to the movies with her (alone... its a start i guess) but im scared if she says no (most likely will) and tells everyone and then i get dissed at school and stuff.
If anyone can tell me what to do/where to start i will rep them (if its helpful and not just "run up and say I LOVE YOU!")

[jemima122]

All girls like being chased, makes us feel special and wanted! Dont be afraid she will say no, chances are if she does its because she is shy too...
You need to take it slowly, sure ask her to the cinema, maybe even say if she wants to bring a mate then she can(that way its not directly asking her to be alone with her) and I would say it would make her more comfortable, bring a mate along yourself...
Maybe you could hold her hand in the cinema and if she responds you know you are on to a winner!-If she does ask her out to the cinema again but dont say invite a mate.
Its good to say bring a mate because if she was to say no and be the type to blab at school you can always come back and say you wasnt asking her out on a date just a get together with your mates and hers!!
hope this helps xx

[Blinger1]

hmm, she isn't the shy type though i am more. I told her that when we went swimming I cant just go up to a chick and say 'hi your hot what is your number' or any 'hook-up' lines thats the way i was brought up i guess!
I might talk to her tomorrow if she goes to the football because her brother plays after my brother and we talk sometimes. We also went for a walk last time i talked to her at the football into town which was fairly cool. If i ask her to the movies without a friend she probably wont think its a 'date' because she will most likely think we are just friends but that is my thinking.

[jemima122]

but if you think about it, you are leaving it up to her- if she wants it to be just you two, she wont invite anyone-say you wanna go cinema did she want to go, you could say if she wanted to invite someone else to let you know so you can invite someone also... i just thought maybe if you do it that way she can decide if its a date or not xxx

[Blinger1]

very true! well ill ask tomorrow maybe we could go ten pin bowling instead because its a bit more interesting maybe?

[jemima122]

i would love to be asked bowling but maybe not for a date unless others were going as it will all be over in half an hour...unless you wanna pay for atleast 3 games xxx

[Blinger1]

god damn short games :@! umm, ill ask if she wants to go bowling because its a bit more interesting and one of us might not have to be stuck in some crappymovie that only 1 person likes

[jemima122]

good stuff, ask her bowling then you can even go to the burger bar or amusements after x

[Blinger1]

no amusements where i live and umm, burgerbar's are weird but i'll ask her for something to eat !

[jemima122]

well good luck whatever you do, im sure you will be fine!!!