I Need Advice

[Campina]

Well heres the problem, im gay but i really want to tell my friends but the main main problem is im scared they'll hate me for who i am, some of my friends who are boys might stay away from me and think ill turn on them
and my other friends will think im a freak .. what shall i do?

[Charlie]

Just tell your friends, if they leave you and turn on you and stuff then they obivously aren't true friends. Also, don't worry about what others think about you, i know it easier said then done.

[WHANGFACE]

I'm in same position, my best mate found out someone was bi and he totally slaughtered them...

[bi!!y]

right well.

its all about the timing and what sort of people are around..



when i was at school i wouldent of DREAMED of telling anymore because there is jsut far tooo much air heads everyone is soo immature and not understanding when they are about 14 -15 -16

however i stayed on at school i probably would of came out by now too


i went to college and it was totaly diffirent...

but .. you are what you are.. no matter how much you try to avoid it its going to come out some time or another

you need to remember there is no rush to tell anyone. just think about if you could deal with what people could think atm. ..

maybye a bit later... you will be fine and wont care what people think like me.. you never know.

Well heres the problem, im gay but i really want to tell my friends but the main main problem is im scared they'll hate me for who i am, some of my friends who are boys might stay away from me and think ill turn on them
and my other friends will think im a freak .. what shall i do?

[Col]

I was the same Campina. Thern I eventually just told my friends, because in the end - They should like you for who you are, and you are who you are.

So, it shouldn't affect your friendship with your friends. It hasn't affected mine at all. It's great to come out to other people - Gets alot off your chest!

[xMicHeLlEx]

Only tell the ones you trust and the ones that will not talk about you behind your back.
Do it one at a time.
In person not over messenger or text.
Good luck

[nixons-a-noob]

EternalMasque (Forum Moderator) Please don't be rude.

[Lukeh]

Nixons you arent worth my time, So i wont bother cutting you down for that.

And you will probably be surprised how supportive your friends will be, I sure as hell was. However I dont know what theyre like, so I cant suggest that you come out, just do it when youre ready. They will probably be fine.

The ones that matter dont mind. The ones that mind dont matter.

[StripedTiger]

really you cant tell what their reaction may be? people are unpredictable.
Tell one of them trustfully and see their reaction. if its bad dont tell anyone else if its good wait a bit and tell another person.
dont rush things

[Lozzoling]

I told 2 of my friends i was bi last year and they didn't mind,they had figured it out basically.

Meh i'm straight no but miaow.