Alright guys.. I need help...

[FatJoe]

Well,

My girl friend cheated on me with some other guy... But I really LOVED her a lot... Her parents abuse her so she is confused in her life... She dumped the person she cheated on with me... Yesterday, I did something I shouldnt have.. I hit her.. I know it sounds harsh but she was saying stupid things...

What can I do to get her back?

[pen island.com]

Well,

My girl friend cheated on me with some other guy... But I really LOVED her a lot... Her parents abuse her so she is confused in her life... She dumped the person she cheated on with me... Yesterday, I did something I shouldnt have.. I hit her.. I know it sounds harsh but she was saying stupid things...

What can I do to get her back?

[MsTanya]

nothing. you hit her .. end ovvv

[FatJoe]

:-( Nothing I can do?

[-Atreyu]

Now thats a little harsh...

[Many]

Well, thats bad, you gotta do somthing REALLY REALLY special to get her back, shes probably scared of you and lost trust in you so you have to proove you wont do it again, and how much she means to you.

[StripedTiger]

Well really, it depends how hard you hit her?

some guys just sorta hit with no real force, others properly smack you which can leave bruses or other injuries.

if you didnt put force in it, i would think she was just offended and upset that you would lift your hands to a girl and i think you should jsut go and apologise, maybe buy her a teddy or something? and talk to her and tell her how you feel.

if you did put force in that smack however, i beleive it will take ALOT to egain her trust and most proberbly she will be scared of you. i think it will take more then a quick chat n question to get her back.

[kasi]

I hit her..

you obviously didnt really love her as much as you said if you did that :rolleyes:

you dont deserve her back.

[Danny]

Guys shouldn't hit girls no matter what they do.

I think you've lost her.. But DON'T keep sending her texts or anything like that, if you want a chance to make it up to her. Let her cool down or what ever before you even try to talk to her. Give it a few days or so, then try and apologise, maybe even buy her flowers or something to show you are truely sorry, and NEVER try hitting her again, and she may trust you again.

But then again, she cheated on you, so is she worth it:s

[Nixt]

The fact you hit her makes you unfit to be with her. It is something I feel strongly about and it is sickening to be honest... You really ruined that relationship and most likely any chance of getting back with her by doing that.