Best friend

[Jarock]

ok so im gay, and i like a guy in my class, but i also like my best friend, and hes really nice and kind, but i wanna tell him so he knows why ive been acting weird around him, but im afraid it might make our friendship even weirder what should i do?:s

[xRoyal15]

I think the best thing for you to do would be to talk to your best mate. After all, if he is your best mate surely he will stick by you no matter what.

And if he doesnt, well then hes hardly a mate is he

[Black-Skull88]

I had a mate at my school tell me he was gay, and in a way it kind of adds extra un needed pressure on them, of course I wouldnt tell people that he is gay, but it makes you feel awkward around ech other

[xRoyal15]

Yer same thing happened with me, sort of.... Dont tell him. Things will change, he will treat you differently and things are never the same.

[brandon]

I'd keep it quiet if I was you mate, cause the person would feel weird around you and not act the same towards you unless he felt the same way.

[brodeo]

Omigod completely the same. Hot boy in my class. I can't even look at him. Someone said jokingly yesterday - maybe he (as in me) fancies you. And everyone was like yeh lololol.. and i was like yeh lololololol.. ;S

[blaster.]

Keep it to your self.
Your friendship is more important

[Zenzi]

If you're not out of the closet to anybody, you're going to find it harder.

It will aid your relationship better if you tell him you're gay. Your relationship will grow as he will know that you trust him enough to tell him such things. I told my friend on MSN once that i loved him. He's 100% straight, i know that. But he was fine with it. (I later blagged it off by saying someone hacked my msn.. I'm a *****) He was very understanding and just calmly told me that he knew how i felt but didn't feel the same way.

Either way, the reaction you get when you tell him will work out for the best. If he ditches you, you know he's not a friend. If he stays your friend, you'll feel him grow stronger in your relationship.

But its your call. xx