Really confused HELP [+Rep]

[Mitch4?]

kay +Rep is for people who give the best advice

Okay me and this girl were going out for like nearly a year. Then i got annoyed with her because one of my friends said she was saying stuff about me, Like what we do... You get the picture. Then i spoke him about him and asked stuff, And he said i should dump her. I didn't want to but i struggled through it, and a few months down the line. I still want her, but the same friend who told me what to do, is now like yeah with her. but not going out with her


I'm totally confused, Should i want her back, Should i hit my friend, What the heck should i do ;[

[Blinger1]

Im not the genious at this stuff (Ostinato is ;-)! but dont hit your friend just talk to her about it ?

[foxyfox00]

Well I dont have advice really but your friend sounds like a jerk! I'd get a new best friend as for the girl explain that you love her and you made a huge mistake.

[Scott1]

Well Dude,

I may not be the best at giving advice but hey, Personally violence doesn't solve anything does it!, So why hit your friend. It will probably make things worst. Also talk to this 'Girl' again explain how you feel about her ect.. and see how it goes. If it doesn't work then am afraid you are going to have to move on and find someone else. there plent more 'fish in the sea' you know .

[FlyingJesus]

From how you said it, it doesn't look like you actually spoke to the girl about it. It looks like:

Him: Your girlfriend talks about the stuff you get up to.
You: O rly?
Him: Ya rly. You should dump her.
You: Kkthx
Him: Lol kai nub *steals girlfriend*

So yeah, you really need to talk to her. If nothing else works, stir up some rubbish about him, because whatever anyone says, two wrongs do make a right.. unless you get it wrong. Explain everything to this girl carefully and calmly, getting angry will just make her angry and nothing will get resolved. Keep it cool, and maybe you'll get yourself a bed for the night even if she decides she doesn't want a relationship.

[2hd.]

Tell this story to everyone you have ever spoke to in your year. The boy will be an outcast VERY soon.

[manga21]

Hit him he stole someone you liked/loved and forced you out of it to get her himself what a friend eh? not good advice but I feel sorry for the guy ..

[-Undiscovered]

what your mate did was wrong, but dont hit him, tell your girlfriend how you feel.

[Ostinato]

Okay well, it's quite clear that your friend was playing you, so that you would dump this girl so he could go for her.

I say, he's not a true friend then. I think you should maybe say to him your not pleased with whats happened, and just stop being friends with him - as your better off without people like that in your life.

Speak to the girl and explain to her, you do still have really strong feelings for her, and the only reason you split with her was because you were being pressurised etc. into it by this friend - but now you've seen what he's done.

If she decides to stick with him, then she needs to learn from her own mistake, so let her. Don't get too upset if it doesn't all work out and she doesn't come running back into your arms though, as you did end it with her so she might have been quite humiliated etc. at you for it and would maybe rather be without you. So prepare yourself for heartbreak, aswell as getting things sorted!

Good luck! :]

[BlingBlingBabey]

Talk to your friend about how you feel. Obviously he gave you bad advice on purpose because he likes her. He's obviously not a good friend, so if he rubs it in your face and tells you to back off, ditch him. He's not worth it, and as for the girl talk things through with her and tell her EXACTLY how you feel. Girls like to know the truth. It makes us think boys more sensitive and kind =)