I need some advice... Rep available.

[Josh-H]

Ok so I am not the kind of lad who posts this kind of thing on the forum but still I really NEED some advice.

I really like this girl which for the time being I'll call... 'Bob'

So I really like 'Bob' but Im quite sure 'Bob' doesn't like me back because I dont really talk to her a lot out of shyness...

For one week of a school holiday way back in October I walked around everyday with my friend and 'Bob' and 'Bob's friend and it was fab. No silences or anything and I talked constantly for like 5 hours a day.

After we was back at school , we never seemed to talk much and now its got back to the point it was at before.

I know what I have to do and that is to talk to her but I find it really difficult and tbh I could do with conversation topics and good ways to start talking, like finding the right time... because if I randomly started talking to her it would probably seem a bit weird to her

So basically I need

1. Conversation Topics
2. Ways to get into a position to have a conversation

Thanks a lot.

Guys and galz welcome to reply

Rep granted

[Alterate]

You've started a new year at school? Use that for a topic about how you feel about the extra work and whatnot. Way's to start the convo is just saying hello.. =/

[alexxxxx]

all I can think of is to meet up with the same people out of school. It's obviously in school you can't talk to her.

[omgabear]

Good start, definately dont go out and ask her out straight off the bat. Talk to her, learn about eachother, cause if your relationship is random lust, it wont work.

Instead of getting us to give you ideas, talk about what YOU want to talk about, it will give her an idea of your character.

Best way to get into a conversation hole with her. Simply take an AK-47 to school, kill everyone around her and then casually start talking to her.

Best of luck

[Josh-H]

Instead of getting us to give you ideas, talk about what YOU want to talk about, it will give her an idea of your character.

I know its true, but I know I'll just go quiet and we'll have an awkward pause and that aint good...

[:James:]

Compliment her occasionally, discuss school and teachers and stuff, it usually gets the topic hot.

[united-champ]

Good start, definately dont go out and ask her out straight off the bat. Talk to her, learn about eachother, cause if your relationship is random lust, it wont work.

Instead of getting us to give you ideas, talk about what YOU want to talk about, it will give her an idea of your character.

Best way to get into a conversation hole with her. Simply take an AK-47 to school, kill everyone around her and then casually start talking to her.

Best of luck

Yer just make a hostage..


ok,
You should chat about subjects you take and the intrests you like and dislike,,
Dont forget Flowers.. She might Want you!!

[x~Rebel~x]

I am not a boy lol but as I'm a girl I know. i think the best thing to do is get talking to her on msn.
Do you sit with her in any lessons? If so, just tell her that your trying to get 100 people on your msn list and could you have her msn addy if she has one.
Then on msn talk about the display pictures, homework you can pretend to be stuck on, music, food and stuff in general. Dont be shy, just dont let it slip that you like her until you are pretty sure she likes you back, you dont want to look like an idiot.
Hope that helped. xxxx

[Josh-H]

I have her msn... But theres just silences

[warn]

So basically I need

1. Conversation Topics
2. Ways to get into a position to have a conversation

We cant really give you conversation topics, we dont know the girl, but generally music is ALWAYS a winner, for ways to get into a poisition to have a conversation, just go up to her, and talk to her. I doubt she will just tell you to get lost, if you have been hanging about with each other on this school trip. Compliment her but dont make it cheesy, like dont say i like your hair, say have you had your hair done, even if they havent it makes them feel good, or at least it works on my girlfriend haha get in.