Question please help

[surfer]

Well ive been going out with my gf for a year and 3 months but people have been saying use tounges when you kiss. We have made out what ever you wanna call loads of times but when we say goodbye we just kiss and and hug. thatsfine with me but her friend "cat" grr i hate her is saying use tounges when you kiss im kinda like:s um... i dont really know what she means :S well i do but yeh any advice kind of :S like what to do? thanks

James!:eusa_danc

[brapbrap]

Stick your tongue down her throat .


No seriously thiugh just go with the flow, and "This friend", why let her tell you what to do, dont do what she wants and go agaisnt what your girl wants, because you could end up on your jays.

[Ostinato]

If you and your girlfriend are comfortable with just having a wee peck and a cuddle at the end of the night, then settle for that - don't let some girl dictate your relationship.

Here is the section from my 'kissing' area from my Relationships FAQ:-

How do I kiss?
It seems a lot of people get really self-conscious and worried when it comes to kissing (making-out/snogging etc). The key to this, is simply to be natural. If your with a partner and feel your both ready to share a kiss, then I suggest you maybe take them out to the pictures or something, and when the moment feels right, just pure your arms around them and look at them in the eyes. Then lower your mouth to there’s and start kissing in the way you would perhaps kiss a relative (a wee peck). This might feel a bit stupid to start with, but trust me – you don’t want to jump in the deep end, and it’s better to do it gradually. From then on, you can start using tongues etc. It might feel a bit weird to start with, but once again it really all is just mind over matter and once you give it a go you’ll be surprised how natural and easy it is to do! :]

Hope that helped at all! :]

[entor M]

Ignore your friend, and do what you and your girlfriend want to do "/

[Eamonn]

Just swish that tounge round her mouth boy !

[Pizza]

eat a mint of something first... you dont wanna kiss her wid bad breath