Should I...

[adm]

Ok, usually I try to sort my own problems out and to bo honest, I can never sort my own out, but I sort other people's out.

Well here's my problem as it stands at the minute.

This girl moved into my school about 2 months before we broke up last year and I hardly knew her but she was my friends mate. I walked home with my mates and her and we were friendly towards each other. The she asked me out about 2 weeks after knowing me. I thought this was too soon and therefore declined. We never spoke to each other after that as I kind of 'split-up' with my mate. It's only come to my attention the past couple of weeks that I still have a soft spot for her, I want to give it a go. But I feel I can't because of the way relationships of mine have gone in the past. I know most of you will say 'give it a go', but i'm afraid that i'll hurt her.

There is a girl that fancies me aswell, i've been out with her before, 2 times. The girl that I like thinks that I still fancy her - I don't.

She believes that I have no interest in her anymore. It's going to be hard to keep in touch with her aswell because she's in the other half of the year and we have different friendship groups.

Thanks to any advice.
+Rep to the best advice.

[cocaine]

If that girl was your friend, she would understand that you do not want to hurt her, and she'll understand where you are coming from.

Just be lucky you've got a girl? Lmao.

[foxyfox00]

We all have fears when heading into relationships, often they hold us back from finding out what could have been. Your past gone, your future is now and you can dream for tomorrow. What im trying to get at is even though you might have had past relationship difficulties if you figure out what went wrong and share this with her it will make having the relationship easier.

As for the talking to her part.
Just say how you feel, or what you wrote. You thought it was too soon and that you thought about and now you have feelings for her and would like to give it a go. Just suggest the idea to her and then she can decide. It might be a good thing that you arent in the same groups and classes because often in a relatonship the people are too close.

Good Luck
foxyfox00

[adm]

True, but inside of me, i'm not that type of guy.

I don't know why but im not forthcoming enough to ever 'stick' with a girl. I'm just too shy basically and my confidence level is very low.

I'm still unsure what to do but I think i'm going to leave it because of the many reasons I have stated.

Thanks for help.