The Girlfriend :(

[VPSwow]

Ok first post in here and i know that some members like to make stupid threads/ posts. So if this goes out of hand it will be closed strait away.

Well iv been going out with this lass a few months now and i see her like once a week sometimes once every two weeks. We live in the same town and we arange to meet and she always has an excuse.

She wasnt very confident with herself before i went out with her and now shes more confident i feel shes leaving me behind and wanting someone else.

She insists she loves me but i really dont know. Before she wouldnt go out with her legs showing now she will go out in scimpy clothes. Not that im bothered because i prefer her like that but does this sound like shes going off me?

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[Nemo]

Well she sounds like she may be, what kind of excuses does she give? Actually, if she is wearing more revealing clothing,making excuses to not meet you and insisting she loves you... may show she could be cheating? Im really not sure though..

[God..]

Hmm.

Maybe if you ask her to go to a movies. Maybe you say 'Hey, I'm not sure if it's working, but I want to try and get it working better - I want to take you to a movies'

Maybe something like that, a dinner? maybe. Would be nice

[VPSwow]

Well im really close with her mates aswell, she doesnt wear ****gy typed clothes but just more revealing. The excuses that she gives her mates aswell, ill ect. I dont think shes cheating because shes like on MSN and that when she says she cant meet me. Im just so confused atm.

+REP when i can

Hmm.

Maybe if you ask her to go to a movies. Maybe you say 'Hey, I'm not sure if it's working, but I want to try and get it working better - I want to take you to a movies'

Maybe something like that, a dinner? maybe. Would be nice

Well actually we aranged to go to cinema last week but it got to the day before then she said she had to go to her Dads house and that she had no money. Then i invited her to a mates party but she was 2 ill. Then she text me saying she was at her mates house, then to the pub with her mum.

[Chadwick]

Sounds like you've turned her into a ****.

[Installz]

Ergh i went out with a girl kinda like that... shes always got an excuse not to meet up like shes busy or tired or whatever. Really annoying
But i think she was cheating ;l
You should see how it goes ;]
If it doesnt work then you can put her on the end of your foot

[VPSwow]

Sounds like you've turned her into a šlag.

Normally i would ignor your posts but it seems you may be correct.

I dont see how tho. But her mates seem to think iv changed her, or made her think she needs to be a **** around me.

[RedStratocas]

a lot of girls feel more comfortable once they're with a boyfriend. they don't feel the need to impress anyone, they can be a bit more open and less held back. sometimes it changes their personality. But if you've made her that way, she probably feels really good with you.

[VPSwow]

I guess il have to see how it goes!!
what signs do i look for to find out if shes cheatin apart from the obv?

[Chadwick]

Normally i would ignor your posts but it seems you may be correct.

I dont see how tho. But her mates seem to think iv changed her, or made her think she needs to be a **** around me.

It was like i didn't have a gf for ages (like from the age of 1 - 7) but then once i got one i turned into a right playa and slowly went through every girl in my school.