Dumping my boyfriend?

[lolwut]

Well yeah.
I'm really shy and... basically frigid.
And this boy I'm going out with is really physical.
And I just think it'd be better if we where just mates, because he like wants me to get off with him and I'm like just scared of it happening.
I could try saying how I feel, like "I just want us to be mates". Except I can't because it's the same line I used on the girl I dumped him for originally.
But I still want him and his mates to be mates with me, if you get it.

So what I guess I'm saying is; How can I finish it yet us still be mates?

[benjamin]

why don't you tell him WHY u dont wanna be so phyiscal, like you're not ready?
he might understand and back off a little and go at your pace.

[Jamesy]

Just say you don't feel ready and hope for the best. Dumpings are never pleasant and you can never really improve them.

[lolwut]

Just say you don't feel ready and hope for the best. Dumpings are never pleasant and you can never really improve them.

Thankies +Rep if I can.

why don't you tell him WHY u dont wanna be so phyiscal, like you're not ready?
he might understand and back off a little and go at your pace.

See what you mean, will do probably.

[Charlie]

Just tell him that you want to take things slow because you aren't ready for that yet, and see how that goes. If he doesn't listen and carries on, then you have a reason to dump him.

[WarezKid]

say you want to take it slow, and if he rude or w.e then dump him, if i had a girlfriend, and shje told me that it was too fast, then ye i would understand


Oh mind, he would get in a ****! or a bad mood, if he does, leave him alone, DONT DUMP HIM!. Just give him time to think it through

[EverSteve]

Uhm if you want him to stop being over physical then ask him 'not to be', if I loved the person then I would stop if they asked, if you just dont want to go out with him, just tell him straight, but make sure you explain why

[superstar911]

Ask him to join Habbox and read this thread lol.

But seriously you could just sit him down privately on a one to one conversation outside of school and tell him how you feel. It's far better than doing it in front of a crowd. Remember not to let yourself be pressured into anything you don't want to do.

[Rhiz]

if you like him tell him you're not ready for the full on physical stuff yet
and that you're a bit shy/afraid to move on anymore in the relationship yet,
if he dumps you over it it's his loss not yours
or if you dont like him enough to move on then just say it to him straight how you're thinking.
because he's not going to read your mind, and you need to tell him what's on it

[Pyroka]

say you want to take it slow, and if he rude or w.e then dump him, if i had a girlfriend, and shje told me that it was too fast, then ye i would understand

Uhm... She, is a he. >_>