If say Bob attacks me, and I auto-retalliate and win the fight,then take his items. Does it give me a leave penalty?

What makes u think i will lose!![]()
unless bob happens to be your assigned target, you will still get the unable to leave penalty whether you attacked first or not.
I think this is discrimination towards me![]()
Bob owns all of you LOL
Sometimes/all the time(I don't know sometimes it's let me leave sometimes not) you can leave if you don't pick items up.
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