so freakin' annoyed.

[Mitch4?]

K well, theres a good few people i consider in my life as best friends - and all of them have knew i was bi for ages now. No one else knew, and i knew that for a fact - that's how i wanted it to stay until i finish year 11.
Well, y'day i had a friend around who didn't know i was bi, and my best best friend, and we were sitting there, and the girl who doesnt know kept saying "would you do him mitch", and i was like "oh yeah defo"(so she'd think it was a joke), then my friend who knows im bi kept giving her looks as if to say shut up.

Then i was on msn to the same person this evening and i said "yeah im going out now, marc has invited me out", and she goes "marcus, isn't that the guy you like?"
i said "er. how do you know that?"
and she goes "hmmh nevermind".

Well none of my best friends like the girl, apart from my best best friend.
so im like compeltly meh at the moment, im so peeved cause obviously if she knows anyone could know?! so don't have to say anything - just needed a rant to get my anger out.

[Naythi.]

I seriously would not class these people as your friends.
If they are going to run around telling your secret you told them in confidence then honestly you can find much better mates than that.

Are you bothered that other people could/do know about you being bi?
I wouldnt be bothered about it personaly, just tell them to get alife.. Maybe a slap? Hah.

[Mitch4?]

nah it's worse than i thought.
i told another best friend about what happened and she goes "oh yeah i know, kath told this person, and this person told me but i already knew"
so basically, now alot of people know.
I'm not really as bothered as i thought i'd be about people knowing, it's just the fact that two of my best friends would throw all my trust back in my face.
So im kinda peeved tbf. Least i know who my real friends are -.-,

[benjamin]

i have 3 best mates, and theres only one i'd really tell anything - he was the guy to tell everyone at football training i swing both ways ;__;.

i forgave him though, as afterall it wasn't much of a big deal - at all.

[Mitch4?]

it's not a big deal that im bi and people will know, it's a big deal that two of my closest friends would say anything at all about me to someone else.
but yeah,
was at a house party just then, didnt have any fun cause one of them started blaming me saying i told the girl she told when i was drunk - despite never being to a party with the girl she told.
and the other lad pushed me over and told me he was better than me, so i pushed him back and about 10 seconds later he started throwing up.
god. people are such, MEHS!

[benjamin]

i know what you mean
i like didn't go to school for the following two days, i was well scared what people would say/think/do but no one cared.
i was more annoyed at him betraying my trust, but i'm a push-over and can't hold a grudge for ****
i guess you should just sit your mate down and give her a good ******* SLAP to knock some sense into her
.. or just explain to her why you're angry at her and how she betrayd your trust, she hasn't been in your situation - she doesn't know what it's like, it's your business and you should be able to tell people when you're good and ready. not when your mates feel like it!

[leah]

I hate people like that, you trust them and they just throw it right back in your face, like they can't resist spreading stuff =/

[Papershop]

That why you shouldnt have really told anyone until you left school, because people dont end up tlking, catching on. But yeh, deal with the consequences, if people find out so be it, and the end of the day it is who you are.

[Xeros]

I dont think there classed are your friends then tbh

[lew!]

ive just had this.
All i can say is,- what goes around, comes around

I had like 3 days off school because a group of year 11's came upto me and started shouting stuff and pushing me around and stuff.. Obv i felt intimidated.

Anyway, Noone likes her now cus they all know how much she lies etc etc, and she nearly got punched today & yesterday.

Yesterday we were just pushing eachother and she ran off and today a teacher broke it up.. (just grabbing nd shouting)

But what goes around comes around, i really do beleive that.