stalker?

[Abbie.]

Theres this boy ive known since I was 8.. hes 2 years younger than me, and has problems, hes a bit weird; exentric nearly since his mum died. He gets bullied badly, and doesnt know how to deal with people basically.

Hes sorta obbessed with me.. i dont know why lol.. maybe because i felt sorry for him, and was the only person who actually said 'hello, how're you?' :p

He waits for me outside the common room, and i have too run past him

He asks my friends things about me, like what i eat etc

It really freaks me out now, today in the library in school, he came up and started talking about me to hannah pretending it wasnt me he was talking about, and yeh..

'IVE REALLY TICKED HER OFF SHE HATES ME, I FEEL LIKE THE HUNCHBACK OF NOTREDAME AND I CANT TELL HER I LIKE HER BECAUSE IM A WEIRDO'

hannah: 'why does she hate you?'

'i talked about father ted too much' :S :S


o yeah, and he said im the only reason he goes to school.....


and he used to post things in my letter box, and got me an easter egg :s

and i cant tell him to leave me alone, he might like do something stupid


what should i do?

[:Edzy]

This one is a toughy.

My freind was in the same position with a boy who has autism, basically don't run away but make it subtly obvious that you're not interested. Be blunt when talking to him so he gets bored. But as for the doing something stupid bit. He's obviously troubled and i think you should talk to a teacher about your discomfort or if they have a Learning Support Assistant that would be better.

I'm not sure if i totally understand the situation

Good Luck!

[myke]

He probably feels like you're the only one that likes him, I feel sorry for him; you should try and help him make friends, then he'll leave you alone.

Good luck

[Abbie.]

He probably feels like you're the only one that likes him, I feel sorry for him; you should try and help him make friends, then he'll leave you alone.

Good luck

you dont understand, if i actually talked to him, he'd follow me about more and think i fancy him .....

[myke]

Abbie, I know it's probably hard, but put yourself in his situation, it doesn't mean he fancies you; he probably feels secure around you?

[Abbie.]

he goes around telling people he fances me

he has the biggest crush on me ;\

all he talks about is me infact .

[Niall!]

he goes around telling people he fances me

he has the biggest crush on me ;\

all he talks about is me infact .

Not a stalker, an infatuation.

[myke]

You should be flattered then, not calling him a stalker, it sorta probably would put him down even more if he knew you were saying/thinking this...

[Abbie.]

You should be flattered then, not calling him a stalker, it sorta probably would put him down even more if he knew you were saying/thinking this...

well if someone followed you about constatly, posted things in your letter box would you be flattered?

[DarrenToogood]

He clearly likes you and you should help him...

Stop running, just act normal towards him and he will act normal back.