Is distance a problem?

[Mitch4?]

Well, you know the guy i wrote about the party with - it didnt happen but we still met up and what not i jsut didn't have the balls too, yet.
Well we met up today in liverpool and we had so much fun for like 7 hours, and i felt so close to him there was like definatly a huge connection.
only problem is, he lives in southport which is like 2 train journeys each about 40 minutes from where i live.
But i really feel like he is just, amazing, theres literally nothing wrong with him, hes perfect.
and well i just wanted to know, do you think long distance relationships can work?
xx

[Leetzgirl]

as from stright realtionships that i have seen over the past few months, i havent seen a single one worked.


I dunno, would you make the effort?, if so, it would work.
if not then lol ^_^

[BrenFoxIsPro]

I wouldn't call that "long distance" the idea of long distance is like a different country and stuff, you're still available to meet him and he can see you, just not often cos of trains and stuff right, maybe if your parents are alright with it and you're serious about the relationship he can move in with you or something.

[Technologic]

I used to meet up with a guy who lives in chorley, about an hour and 10 minutes by train from where i live, untill he moved even further away. Then it was too far ;[ But it can work if you're dedicated

[Absently]

My brother and his girlfriend have a long distance relationship. She lives in Clonmel and we live in Waterford, it's about one hour and a half to get to clonmel. They've been going out for over a year now, and they seem to be managing it quite well.

[Con]

If your up for making the effort / he is up for the effort.

Then hell yeah its worth it.
You like him that much, Go for it.

About the distance, Meet up halfway somewhere?

[Mitch4?]

If your up for making the effort / he is up for the effort.

Then hell yeah its worth it.
You like him that much, Go for it.

About the distance, Meet up halfway somewhere?

yeah we do seem really commited to being together, we're already talking about meeting his parents and each others friends.
We meet in liverpool, so like only 40 minutes each - but then it would be a pain if i had to go from my town to liverpool to southport, then back cause thats like nearly 3 hours on the train in a day. & the cost is like going up cause i can no longer bend down and pretend to be under 16 haha. but yeah, i really am looking forward to meeting him again, hopefully next week :]

[Zak]

Well, you know the guy i wrote about the party with - it didnt happen but we still met up and what not i jsut didn't have the balls too, yet.
Well we met up today in liverpool and we had so much fun for like 7 hours, and i felt so close to him there was like definatly a huge connection.
only problem is, he lives in southport which is like 2 train journeys each about 40 minutes from where i live.
But i really feel like he is just, amazing, theres literally nothing wrong with him, hes perfect.
and well i just wanted to know, do you think long distance relationships can work?
xx

In my opinion, it is a problem.

[CreditCardDebt]

I'd say give it a Try...

[SmileUK]

they can work, its up to you both to make it work though.
can you trust each other?
do you love each other?
etc etc

you know, you dont have to meet all the time, talking on the phone or texting can work to