Just a question...

[iApple]

I asked my fiancee to marry me about 4 months ago, we're getting married next year hopefully, if not in January 2010, and I'm starting to think of asking her if she wants to try and have a child with me... thing is she goes on about how happy she is without all the stress of her little brother around since we moved into our own place and I'm taking the hint she don't really like children that much..

I'm 19 by the way, and yes I know people go on about I'm only young and I'm jumping into things and shes been told the same, but we've been together since we was 13.

If I was to ask her about thinking of having a child, any idea how to ask her? I've been thinking of taking her to our favorite eating place but I feel for new starts and new futures, I should take her somewhere new, posh...

[Christian]

I asked my fiancee to marry me about 4 months ago, we're getting married next year hopefully, if not in January 2010, and I'm starting to think of asking her if she wants to try and have a child with me... thing is she goes on about how happy she is without all the stress of her little brother around since we moved into our own place and I'm taking the hint she don't really like children that much..

I'm 19 by the way, and yes I know people go on about I'm only young and I'm jumping into things and shes been told the same, but we've been together since we was 13.

If I was to ask her about thinking of having a child, any idea how to ask her? I've been thinking of taking her to our favorite eating place but I feel for new starts and new futures, I should take her somewhere new, posh...

First of all congratulations that your getting married! Just take her out to somewhere romantic and that has some significance to you and memories (happy ones that is) that you can look back on and then like start talking about the future and bring up the subject of having Children and she what she things.

Also with the stress of her and her little brother, little brothers are a pain they generally are but they are completely different to having a baby.

[dirrty]

people who marry young have high divorce rates.

surely if u av been in a relationship since u were 13 and getting married, then u should be comfortable enough to ask her opinion on kids...

[Memmish]

I have never really imagined being asked 'Do you want to have a baby with me?' i think that sort of thing happens when you are really settled and it seems like the next natural step and you both discuss it together, its not really a question and answer type situation. What with the wedding coming up and you have just moved in together it doesnt seem quite right yet. And she may feel rushed. If you dont think she likes kids at the mo she probably isnt ready, women get broody around babies and kids if they want one themselves. Asking someone 'will you marry me?' at a posh restaurant etc seems romantic, but setting an evening up to ask if she will have your baby seems a bit hectic.
Basically i think its too soon and you should wait til it feels like a natural progression.

Obviosuly this is just my opinion and i wish you luck in whatever you decide. And congrats about the wedding.
x

[iApple]

First of all congratulations that your getting married! Just take her out to somewhere romantic and that has some significance to you and memories (happy ones that is) that you can look back on and then like start talking about the future and bring up the subject of having Children and she what she things.

Also with the stress of her and her little brother, little brothers are a pain they generally are but they are completely different to having a baby.

Thanks, I've decided to leave it for a while, maybe after christmas, at the moment it seems abit daft.

[Rapidshare]

Abit of more humping and hoping the condom breaks is a better idea

[leah]

Congratulations on your engagement!
I hope everything works out for you

[Lulz]

get a needle and put holes though the condom if you really want a child.

but on a seroius note.

talk to her about it

"hunny, you ever thought about having a child?"