Do you believe in sex before marriage?

[Clowgon]

I think its ok to do it before marriage but i think people should think about using condoms. The reason why i say this because men who get girls pregnant before they get married are today likely to leave them and thats not fair on the mother or the baby.

Your opinions on this?

[Swearwolf]

i believe in it yea

[Moh]

Yes, its only natural for humans to have sex for fun.

But if there not trying for a baby, then they should definitely use protection.

I think the only animals (what I know of) which have for fun as well are cats and dolphins

[RedStratocas]

yes. in fact, i'd encourage it. limiting yourself to anything until you get married is a bad idea. then it makes you want to get married because you'll be able to do those thing you limited yourself to, not for the actual person.

people limiting themselves to sex until they're married is probably the reason so many people get divorced, really.

[Kardan]

Yep, I'm all for it

[buttons]

people limiting themselves to sex until they're married is probably the reason so many people get divorced, really.

err why is that? it's probably the reason most couples that aint married split, yep, but i don't get you? If they're married & are having sex now why would that make em likely to get divorced :S lol.

some people don't have sex till they're married coz they wanna save it for someone special when tbh you could get married to them and decide they're not the one and divorce/split later so theres no point really, if it feels right you just go for it.

[scottish]

err why is that? it's probably the reason most couples that aint married split, yep, but i don't get you? If they're married & are having sex now why would that make em likely to get divorced :S lol.

some people don't have sex till they're married coz they wanna save it for someone special when tbh you could get married to them and decide they're not the one and divorce/split later so theres no point really, if it feels right you just go for it.

i fink he means if they dnt have sex until their married then they suck in bed = divorce

[Jtee]

Lmao you can still leave them when married.
I dont believe in it btw lmao, its pointless.

[Jordy]

Lmao you can still leave them when married.
I dont believe in it btw lmao, its pointless.

In what way is sex before marriage any more pointless than sex after marriage? We may as well close the thread now and just call 'sex' pointless as we could get all babies from IVF if need be.

[RedStratocas]

err why is that? it's probably the reason most couples that aint married split, yep, but i don't get you? If they're married & are having sex now why would that make em likely to get divorced :S lol.

because people get married so that they can have sex with someone, not because they love them. they get married, they have sex, then once that's off their mind one of them realizes they dont actually love or even like the other person, lol. we talked about this in psychology last year, i think it makes sense.