im with this girl atm and....

[Antallica]

We meet up like in town every saturday.
my mates keep saying 'GARRGGGH, its not gnna work' and all that.

what do you think about relationships like that?
Meetiing once or twice a week because of the distance.

[Jackk]

if your happy with seeing your girlfriend, once a week then go for it. but if you like to see your girlfriends more than once a week and obviously its not possible with this one so i wouldn't see the point in wasting your time...

[buttons]

well it isn't that bad is it? even when i was dating someone who lived 20 minutes away i only saw him once or twice a week because of me being at school and him working and we didn't have any issues regarding distance or having no time. It's honestly not that bad if you're both meeting up a few times a week, you don't need to see each other every day atleast when you meet you'll be looking forward to it as you haven't seen each other for a while

[Toughened]

well it isn't that bad is it? even when i was dating someone who lived 20 minutes away i only saw him once or twice a week because of me being at school and him working and we didn't have any issues regarding distance or having no time. It's honestly not that bad if you're both meeting up a few times a week, you don't need to see each other every day atleast when you meet you'll be looking forward to it as you haven't seen each other for a while

Totally agree. Then you don't get sick of each other too.
If it was once a month then I'd reconsider but it's at least once a week so I don't see a problem with that.

[DMan1]

No problem with once a week it's better then nothing.

[Ramones]

Yeah it's probably better that way, from my experience relationships tend to be more exciting when you don't see each other as often.

[RedStratocas]

once or twice a week? thats hardly long distance. hell, thats how often a lot of couples who live in the same town are actually with each other.

[iMegz.]

I don't think your friends are in any position to judge the relationship you share with you girlfriend because at the end of the day what goes on in your relationship is between you and her, not them but then I suppose everyone is allowed to have their own opinion, it's just a fact of life. If you're both happy with the amount of time you see eachother then I don't see why it can't work out for you both. I hope everything works out, good luck!