i wish i didn't care..

[SugarPlum.]

Okay, so, we and my boyfriend were together for like a year and three months.
And he decided to dump me without reason about a month ago.. We've been very close still since, basically still going out if you ask me. He knows i still love him, and he asked me out on Saturday, so as imagined i was exstatic, but then on Sunday night he told me he didn't mean to ask me out and that he was just very drunk... Which hurt me alot. So i put my facebook status as efff off :/ and my friend text me asking why i put that, so i told him, and he text me back sayin my boyfriend had always been abit horrible to me, and that i deserve better. Me and my ex went out yesterday and he nearly saw the text so i turned my phone off cause i didn't want him to be hurt, and he made a big deal out of it and turned it into a 52 comment facebook war lol...

He braught up all my secrets i told him when we were going out, in front of my parents and everyone else on facebook. Which tbh humiliated me - it was so low that he even tried to make my parents hate me by telling them stuff... So i stuck up for myself... Now he's trying to blame me for everything and i dunno what to do. Because i obviously still love him and want him back, but i'm sick of him treating me however he likes and getting away with it, not even saying sorry or whatever. I just forgive him.

He's blocked and deleted me off everything, and i thaught i was okay about it because it'd make him realise how much he's loosing. But i dunno...

Is it so wrong that i stuck up for myself ??

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[Pyroka]

Not at all, it's pretty admirable that you tried to stick up for yourself but I think by blocking and deleting him it just makes you miss him more. I had a rocky break up with my last girlfriend, tried to make her feel bad and it only made me feel worse. *REMOVED*

Uhm... Not much to do really except let time be the best healer. I wouldn't be provoked by him because when you do, you will just feel awful, apologise and then treat him like crap. It's weird him dumping you for 'no reason', so maybe that reason will come out soon. Best of luck to you, I'm crap at advice but there's not much you can do in your situation.

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[Browney]

Okay, so, we and my boyfriend were together for like a year and three months.
And he decided to dump me without reason about a month ago.. We've been very close still since, basically still going out if you ask me. He knows i still love him, and he asked me out on Saturday, so as imagined i was exstatic, but then on Sunday night he told me he didn't mean to ask me out and that he was just very drunk... Which hurt me alot. So i put my facebook status as efff off :/ and my friend text me asking why i put that, so i told him, and he text me back sayin my boyfriend had always been abit horrible to me, and that i deserve better. Me and my ex went out yesterday and he nearly saw the text so i turned my phone off cause i didn't want him to be hurt, and he made a big deal out of it and turned it into a 52 comment facebook war lol...

He braught up all my secrets i told him when we were going out, in front of my parents and everyone else on facebook. Which tbh humiliated me - it was so low that he even tried to make my parents hate me by telling them stuff... So i stuck up for myself... Now he's trying to blame me for everything and i dunno what to do. Because i obviously still love him and want him back, but i'm sick of him treating me however he likes and getting away with it, not even saying sorry or whatever. I just forgive him.

He's blocked and deleted me off everything, and i thaught i was okay about it because it'd make him realise how much he's loosing. But i dunno...

Is it so wrong that i stuck up for myself ??

You did absolutely the right thing. You shouldn't need to take that, nevermind from someone you love. If he loved you he wouldnt do that stuff. You obviously deserve better, since you've done nothing wrong but fall for the wrong guy. Other guys will come along, trust me. And then you'll realise what being loved by someone is really like.

[Dusty-09]

*REMOVED*. He deserves hell after what he did, hes treating you like **** and yet he turns it on you!? Ignore him and your friends right you deserve better than this scum.

He doesn't sound like the right one for you.

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[buttons]

You need trust in a relationship and like you said, he told your secrets AND in front of parents so you should stop thinking you want him back even if he says sorry many times. Of course you did the right thing, he's obviously jealous that you've been getting texts, probably thinks it's from a guy so he's still trying to control you even though he was the one that finished it, you shouldn't even be hanging around with him as a friend if he's like that but yeah, you did the right thing.

[Sly]

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[SugarPlum.]

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