It's been so long..

[Arron]

It's been so long since I've had a relationship which had meant something to me. i feel as if i need a girlfriend just to fit in with a lot of my mates (as they are in relationships). i had the chance a few weeks ago to start seein this girl, but someone is now seein her and i feel as if i left it too late. I dno what it is but i just feel as if i need to be in a relationship or i could freak out. seein people kiss and cuddle just makes me really want to start one up. but i dont know thee perfect single girl out there. what shall i do :/ i actually do feel depressed seeing other people together.

[Mentor]

if you get in to a relationship just for the hell of it, chances are it'll end badly and you'll just feel even worse. Stop worrying about it so much, better yet stop worrying about it at all. Your chances of entering a relationship are far higher when your not looking (as unintuitive as that may sound, its true. Desperate just aint a good look)

[Toughened]

Don't let it bother you. I know seeing all your friends and people kissing and cuddling can make you want a relationship and such but you have your whole life ahead of you. Relationships ain't what they're cracked up to be.
It's a lot better being single and just taking life as it comes. At least you ain't tied down and have the worrys of a girl on your mind all the time.

[Cyndia]

You know, after those people are in their relationships for a while, I'm sure a lot of them start to miss being single, haha. I know I always seem to want the opposite of whatever I have at the moment. But yeah, don't go out of your way to get into a relationship with someone you're not really interested in. It sucks to see all your friends in relationships, but to be honest most will be single again eventually, so dont stress about it. Eventually you'll meet someone you wanna date, but dont settle for less in the meantime.

[Arron]

Thanks you lot.

[leah]

I'm going through the same thing as you haha, loads of my friends now have boyfriends and i'm single, I don't think you should chase a relationship though, just let one happen.

[jennifuh]

Seriously , don't date for the sake of dating. Either you'll get hurt or most likely, the other person will. You go into the relationship with a wishy-washy feeling so that's pretty much all that's going to come out of it.