HELP ME! +rep

[Nixt]

My ex and I split up around four months ago. I love him more than anyone or anything I have ever met. I made some mistakes in our relationship that led him to losing his trust in me, I fully understand his issues. There is a chance now, that we could get back together but he is worried that he is going to have his trust broken again. He wants me to do something to prove to him he can trust me. I would do ANYTHING for him, but he wants me to come up with something and, ashamed as I am to admit it, I cannot think of anything that I could do to prove he can trust me. Help !

[Teabags]

4 months...

Have you told your ex how much your thinking about this and have you told him about how much you've changed? I know this is a sensitive and personal topic but how serious do you want your relationship to work?

[Jackk]

nevermind.

[Nixt]

4 months...

Have you told your ex how much your thinking about this and have you told him about how much you've changed? I know this is a sensitive and personal topic but how serious do you want your relationship to work?

We have been split up four months and recently came into contact again. We were together for a year. I am desperate for this to work.

i thought you was a lad?

I am.

[Teabags]

We have been split up four months and recently came into contact again. We were together for a year. I am desperate for this to work.

What you must do is show you have understood their feelings during the split and do you feel that you have adapted to fit your partners feelings?

What you need to do is pay attention and be sensitive to their feelings and show that you have an intrest in their life. It's not just a bunch of flowers job. You need something that can truly bind you together, without guilt e.g. a responsibility/duty.

It really depends on many factors for instance, do you understand why you have split, have you realised your mistakes, you have to be patient to gain trust; it isn't an instant fix.

[FlyingJesus]

I think you should go clubbing with a couple of cool guys

[Nixt]

I think you should go clubbing with a couple of cool guys

That goes without saying.

[Teabags]

I think you should go clubbing with a couple of cool guys

y'mean leave someone that you want. I know that's always good, but if you want them back doesn't that lose even more trust. That is unless you hit rockbottom. Which in that case, go nuts.

[FlyingJesus]

y'mean leave someone that you want. I know that's always good, but if you want them back doesn't that lose even more trust. That is unless you hit rockbottom. Which in that case, go nuts.

I have no idea what you're on about

[Teabags]

I have no idea what you're on about

My bad. Ignore me.