have or would you ever forgive your partner for cheating?

LipsLikeSugar · 12-08-2009, 05:12 PM

have or would you ever forgive your partner for cheating?

If yes you did, why?
If yes you would, why?
If no you wouldn't, why?

Cyndia · 13-08-2009, 04:56 AM

I think it would depend on the severity and on the guy/how long we'd been together, etc. I've thankfully never had to deal with a guy cheating on me, but if I'd been with a guy for a really long time and it was just a temporary lapse - maybe making out with someone while really drunk, I might let it slide. Though I'd give them hell for it for a good long while until I knew for sure they regretted it. If they did it more than once then I'd definitely kick them out, no questions asked. And if it was something more than just kissing, like hooking up/having sex, I'd be done with them, no questions asked as well. Or if it happened within a short period of time of when we started dating. And the reason why I'd dump them is simply because them cheating shows that I can't trust them, and if you can't trust a guy how can you date him? And the reason why I'd give them a second chance is because we all mess up sometime or other, and as long as it wasn't really severe I think it's reasonable to give them another chance.

MrGazet · 13-08-2009, 07:06 AM

seriously i don't know
never really got serious with someone but i do hate infidelities.
maybe if i really love that person,i'd forgive but not forget.it would never be the same though,so i think its better off to get with someone else

Soy · 13-08-2009, 11:26 AM

soy slap da' bish up

**FlyingJesus** · 13-08-2009, 02:14 PM

1st and 3rd I was cheating on too so didn't really matter, 2nd was a one time thing and I didn't find out until after we'd broken up so was just like oh fair play

I have gooooood relationships

MrRem · 13-08-2009, 02:24 PM

You don't love someone if you can not forgive them.

Inspiration · 13-08-2009, 02:24 PM

I'd say yes because i have cheated on my current girlfriend and told her straight away and tbh things ain't the same anymore but you gotta work at these things.