I'm close, but really worried.

[ItsDave]

So, I've known this girl for some time. She is really hot and always makes me laugh, she's perfect for me.

She says shes gonna dump her current b/f not because of me, because of him. He's a horrible chavvy dude, calls her name, and just makes her very unhappy, so she said "I'm not gonna keep my family happy by dating this guy anymore". So good news. She knows I'm into her so thats a bonus too, instead of not telling her.

However, few things I'm worried about. Her brother is well known to the police, is well violent, and deals/does class A's. So if I were to go out with her and for whatever reason we should split, I'm worried he might beat the crap into me, he can easily do it, he knows plenty people. Aswell, her boyfriend... he's a pretty violent guy too! So if I go out with her, she told me a story about her ex and this bloke, and I could probably expect like a good shouting at and maybe a kick in the gums, and I think him and her brother are good mates too.

Should I bail out on this before it gets started? :eusa_wall

[Absently]

So, her being really hot and making you laugh means she's perfect for you..?

+ just wait a few months until you go out with her and then maybe even keep it a secret.

[ItsDave]

No it doesn't mean shes perfect for me, its just the basics. It works. And that dont sound a bad idea.

[MrGazet]

you could go out with her but expect the worst to come if you make her brother unhappy with you

[Kyle]

Stay well away tbh

[Bun]

man up and do it .

[Flamedragon3]

I actually know a girl who had three brothers who were all really rough and sometimes got into trouble with the police. My mate (who isn't rough and never really gets into any kind of serious trouble) went out with her as she too is hot and very funny...

They have now been going out for 2 and a half years and are engaged. Her brothers are like best friends with him, and he has had no problems with them at all. If it was me, I would go for it, as I know I'm not the kind of person who really upsets other girls easily. But if you do upset other girls, then you should think about it, as if you do upset her I don't know what her brother may do as I don't know him like you might do?

[J0SH]

Just go for it.

Just because her brother deals drugs and has a few mates doesn't mean you should be scared. Why would her brother risk beating up a minor just because you split up? Surely if you get to know him and become mates everything would be just fine.

If you are to get beaten take it like a man.

[kuzkasate]

TBH do it! If you love her, you'd take the risk.

I mean, say when your older in yours 20s and your going to a restaurant with a girl and ehr ex turns up and starts on you. Your not exactly going to say "Oh sorry, need to go home quicks, bye." :S

Love is a risk which you WILL have to take.