reeeet well

[Glitter]

theres this boy who ive kinda been seeing for a while, but i have no idea where its going.. everytime i bring up the subject he doesnt seem to understand my point, i asked him if he's seeing anyone else and he was like no, but i still don't get whats going on. he's told me he really likes me but apparently theres loads of stuff going on in his head which he won't tell me... i really don't know what to do or say.. everytime i've tried to talk to him its been subtle though, but i dont wanna just be like "*** is going on"

i don't mind either way tbf, i'd just prefer to know! what do i dooooooo.
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[BoomItsClowgon]

First of all, i would like to say that he is abbbbsolutely bonkers that he hasn't taken you up on your offer yet.

Erm, maybe you could sit down with him, (In a closed environment) and just talk to him about the problems that seems to be bothering him.

[Hecktix]

Erm, can I just say I screamed when I read this?

Do you eeeeeeeevvvvvvvvvvvvveeeeeeeer listen?

I should post a warning on this thread

"Don't bother giving advice she'll never listen"

It's simple, you tell him he tells you whats going on or you stop being so... free?

Btw hope ur kk and everything n that jess is kk x

[Glitter]

ye but what am i meant to say? "hello are we together or getting together, or are we just *******? what exactly does all this mean!"

he might think i want more than he does, which i dont, cause i dont care what happens, i just wanna know!

[FlyingJesus]

If you're not bothered don't ask, because then he'll start thinking you do want it to be official (whether you do or not and whether you tell him so or not) and that makes all sorts of problems. If you just want to know whether you're allowed to bang other people too then ask him that outright because it doesn't sound like you want to be his full time gf anyway so it doesn't matter if he gets annoyed by that.

[Hecktix]

ye but what am i meant to say? "hello are we together or getting together, or are we just *******? what exactly does all this mean!"

he might think i want more than he does, which i dont, cause i dont care what happens, i just wanna know!

what you showed me t'other days showed he may want something, u know where he said he fell for you or w/e

[Glitter]

If you're not bothered don't ask, because then he'll start thinking you do want it to be official (whether you do or not and whether you tell him so or not) and that makes all sorts of problems. If you just want to know whether you're allowed to bang other people too then ask him that outright because it doesn't sound like you want to be his full time gf anyway so it doesn't matter if he gets annoyed by that.

but how do i put that? how am i meant to say it, without it sounding so, like, crude lolol.

[Meanies]

ask him where you are and what he wants