SEX IS PAINFUL?

[blissful]

Im 15 and my boyfriend and i feel ready for sex, so we tried but he got inches in and it hurt, well i know it breaks a bone, but how painful is it!!
any tips?:S

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[Yoshimitsui]

What you are referring to would be the 'Hymen', it is not a bone but infact tissue. If it hurts or whether it breaks is different from woman to woman and is dependent on your body alone. It can hurt first time but how to go about it i would suggest reading up on the internet or wait for an answer from another girl on the forum, as im sure they could explain these sorts of things alot better than me.

[RandomManJay]

What you are referring to would be the 'Hymen', it is not a bone but infact tissue. If it hurts or whether it breaks is different from woman to woman and is dependent on your body alone. It can hurt first time but how to go about it i would suggest reading up on the internet or wait for an answer from another girl on the forum, as im sure they could explain these sorts of things alot better than me.

Yeah, usually the Hymen doesn't hurt during the first time you have sex, but in some cases it can, it is in the end normal though, so its nothing really to be worried about. Like Yoshi said, do some research on the internet, NHS Direct would be a good suggestion and wait for a girl to reply back, men can't really relate to these things .

[FlyingJesus]

Certainly doesn't break a bone lol... as Yoshi said that'll be the hymen which is literally a small bit of membrane, it's gonna hurt when that breaks but a massive amount of girls these days have already broken it or at least worn it down a bit by the time they have sex - and not just through foreplay as a lot of common activities and sports can make a difference due to its fragility.

That said, you're not likely to feel fantastic as soon as that "barrier" has gone. Some girls are entirely able to lose their virginity and have just a few moments of pain before it starts feeling good, but the majority of the time it's not quite so Hollywood and in my experience (obviously not as the girl but with girls) it can hurt for a fair while and take a few attempts over time until your body gets used to it. All you can really do is grin and bare it - use lube if you think you need it and always always always (for the fun of it as well as practicality) have yourselves a good session of foreplay first.

By the way, if you really have broken a bone doing it then something hasn't gone quite right.

[Pyroka]

inb4 centimetres arent inches.

Apparently its painful, uhm I'm not a guru on it but yes it would appear it does hurt. I think the feedback you've been getting is very useful. Except mine of course. I'm just here to make it humorous. It's gonna hurt either way, he's jabbing you with his member in your front bottom, it's not going to 'tickle'.

[Access]

get some sexual juices flowing or use some lube..

didn't hurt me when *REMOVED*

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[Pyroka]

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get some sexual juices flowing or use some lube..

didn't hurt me when i *REMOVED*

What better advice could you get from anybody called 'Access'. Hur hur hur.

[kk.]

ryans on the ball tonight

but yes, every advice above is what is correct. and lol at fj's bottom bit

[FlyingJesus]

My bottom bit is gorgeous tyvm

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[Inscribe]

ryans on the ball tonight

Dont you mean hes on the balls?

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