This Girl, That Guy.

[JustDAVE]

Well, hm, well, basically guys I need some advice, I ain't gonna write really big as this is important...

Well basically, I have been friends with this guy who is apart of ''the clacks'' as we call it, for a few years now, and he got with this girl about 9 months ago, and only recently I think I am interested in her, I normally joke around with her about going behind his back and I do kind of force the conversation on her as all she needs right now is a friend to be honest, but I do like the girl, and I use to like her before her got with her

I asked her today if she wanted to come round as I had some friends coming round and her boyfriend didn't wanna come out with her, so she come round and stuff, then all of a sudden my flatmate goes out, takes his bit on the side with him, and I am left alone with her, well anyway I was upstairs with her and she was showing me her music on her ipod, and i kind dropped the earphone giving it back to her and kind just like holded her hand, she looked at me, then looked at the hands and then kind of jumped up and went on the pc to put some music on

do you think i should carry on and see if she will go behind his back and have a fling with me?

i know she must like me, but shes already said she dont wanna cheat on him, but she is actually like my match, plus my mates like 6'3, and shes like 5'4, and im 5'6, so we'd be more comftable in bed wouldn't you think on a serious note so she might enjoy it, oh did i mention she lost her virginity to him... ''/ so it makes it more complicated, she says she loves him and he says he loves her but i dont think he deserves her, i aint saying i do either but its just when i want something, i just gotta have it...

[FlyingJesus]

You only want her because the friend has her. Me and my bffl do this with every girl either of us gets with so by now we just don't care but basically it's just the old issue of "can't have it so I want it". If they broke up you'd lose interest after a little while

That said, go for it anyway, it's hot when you get with someone knowing they've chosen you over the guy they're "meant" to be with

[JustDAVE]

You only want her because the friend has her. Me and my bffl do this with every girl either of us gets with so by now we just don't care but basically it's just the old issue of "can't have it so I want it". If they broke up you'd lose interest after a little while

That said, go for it anyway, it's hot when you get with someone knowing they've chosen you over the guy they're "meant" to be with

You know that man! I like you're morals

[Lindsey]

I Think, you should just carry on... even how bad it seems, because you never know she might start to like you, and break up with her other bf, ... if she tells u to back off ect. then obv, do it.. but if her and her bf break up, be the first to comfort her.

[Joe!]

Leave her alone, you could end up really hurting your mate. Trust me. It's horrible when someone takes someone you love away. Clearly they're happy together, otherwise they wouldn't be together.

[Starburst..x]

Leave it be. You could lose a lot more than you think if it all goes **** up!
Not only that but switch positions with your friend. If that was you and your so-called 'friend' is planning on getting with your girlfriend behind your back and is going out of his way to try and do so, how would you honestly feel?
I know it's hard when you want someone that you can't have, and Im not saying don't flirt. Just try not to force it because you can end up pushing both away.
Not only that, she obviously knows how you feel and she's not acting on so perhaps that might give you your answer?

[Kyle]

Ask your friend if he's willing to share...

[syko2006]

Ask your friend if he's willing to share...

That could work.