Gah. Relationships.

[Jam-ez]

Hello all

Yes I haven't posted in a while and everyone that knew me probably doesn't anymore - but haiho, here I am. Anyway, yes, let's get into the plane old boring and sticky stuff.

Around about ... June last year I started going out with this girl I really, really like. I'm 15 and had never gone out with anyone before (no social life detected (yn)) but yeah. We stopped talking over the summer (I don't know why, I still like her and still did then.. I presume nerves just got the better of me or something) and then ended it as a joint decision around the start of September.

As I said, I still like her and have all this time... But now one of my best friends has started dating her (since around the start of January). I've started getting all touchy and annoyed with him and whenever they're in school touching each other or whatever it really makes me want to smash him in the face and push him off a cliff - I mean isn't it obvious that best friend's don't date ex-girlfriend's or something?

So yah. Thing is we've started talking a lot more on MSN and stuff - we're always on webcam too. She was pissed off at me before cause she thought I fancied this other girl (who I'd never go out with even if I was a forty year old virgin or something). I finally convinced her I don't; but she keeps telling me she's always thinking of me, misses me and wants to get back together.

I'm totally confused. Her boyfriend (my.. hmph, best friend) is just playing WoW all the time and doesn't talk to her as much as I do.

I have no idea what to do... Should I just sit back and let it flow or something? I'd really like to get back together with her

Well thanks for any help guys, +rep if I actually have rep.
Regards,
Jam-ez.

[chantellehugs]

I don't think you should do anything, fair enough, it would of been better for your friend to have asked if you were okay with him dating the girl you'd finished with 4 months ago, but don't cheat with his girlfriend.
I think if you have a problem with them touching each other in school you need to talk to him about it.
If you do decide to go with the girl, it's gonna cause more problems, if she wants to get back together, she needs to break it off with your friend. She can't have both of you.

In other words, LET IT FLOW, SIT BACK AND WATCH HOW THINGS UNFOLD.

[Jam-ez]

I don't think you should do anything, fair enough, it would of been better for your friend to have asked if you were okay with him dating the girl you'd finished with 4 months ago, but don't cheat with his girlfriend.
I think if you have a problem with them touching each other in school you need to talk to him about it.
If you do decide to go with the girl, it's gonna cause more problems, if she wants to get back together, she needs to break it off with your friend. She can't have both of you.

In other words, LET IT FLOW, SIT BACK AND WATCH HOW THINGS UNFOLD.

Yeah, I know. He asked me after he asked her and she said yes.
Hmm, I suppose.
Yeah that's what I told her, I'm not going out with her while she's with him!

A'rite, thanks +rep

[Stryderman]

Theres no rule about dating your friends ex's

If that happened half the people i was with i wouldnt of been with.

You find new people or people youve not noticed before all the time, jus happens

[Pyroka]

As hex said theres no rule dating your friends ex's but thing is he plays world of warcraft he deserves to lose her. you need to tell her to dump the guy or they wont get back together cuz she obv needs a push.

youre just dramatizing it all tbh tell her to dump him or youll walk away cuz u dont need that crap. or even better **** relationships and become a playa LOL

[Stryderman]

^^

Or you could learn something really cool and impress her an she will be like phwoar i want a bit of that

[Pyroka]

^^

Or you could learn something really cool and impress her an she will be like phwoar i want a bit of that

im pretty sure she does want 'a bit of that' already

come on hes competing against a world of warcraft player whats gonna happen is he gonna challenge him to a duel and be like i damage u 200??

[Stryderman]

im pretty sure she does want 'a bit of that' already

come on hes competing against a world of warcraft player whats gonna happen is he gonna challenge him to a duel and be like i damage u 200??

You never know she might play WoW aswell an they might be tlkin to each other online.

[Pyroka]

You never know she might play WoW aswell an they might be tlkin to each other online.

dont be silly shes a girl

[Stryderman]

dont be silly shes a girl

Dont be so sexist!!

I thought they made female characters on WoW anyway