How do you tell the difference between...

[Firehorse]

How do you tell the difference between a girl who is says no to going out (before you've asked and around other friends) because they like you so much they're embarrased about it or they geniunly aren't into you.

Any ideas?

[Catzsy]

I think you should take it as a 'no' because she doesn't want to got out with you to start with. If you play it a bit cooler then it will soon become obvious that she is into you.

[Firehorse]

wow, just read my post and realised how many typos there are -.-

[kuzkasate]

maybe instead of popping the question straight away, tell her you like her and then ask her if she likes you?

[Firehorse]

maybe instead of popping the question straight away, tell her you like her and then ask her if she likes you?

dunno if it would be as simple as that, even though we are friends

[Gibs960]

Although I'm young, I always tell a friend, it always gets spread round some how, then when she finds out just act casual with her, I do it all the time - Gibs (Famous ladies man)

[Wig44.]

How do you tell the difference between a girl who is says no to going out (before you've asked and around other friends) because they like you so much they're embarrased about it or they geniunly aren't into you.

Any ideas?

It's very unlikely to be scenario a unless you asked infront of lots of people. Some people hate social pressure.

[Blinger1]

Although I'm young, I always tell a friend, it always gets spread round some how, then when she finds out just act casual with her, I do it all the time - Gibs (Famous ladies man)

The problem with that for me is that i am not friends with her friends... and yeah. kinda same situation as op btw

[MrGazet]

It's very hard to tell but you should go for it.If she is still persistent,then it's a genuine no.

[AgnesIO]

Although I'm young, I always tell a friend, it always gets spread round some how, then when she finds out just act casual with her, I do it all the time - Gibs (Famous ladies man)

If only you were not 11 aye.