My Sister

[Becca]

Well, my sister is about to go to college, but after college she's moving down south.
The thing is, when sister's argue and stuff like that you hate each other then hold a grudge.
I've always thought I hated my sister but actually, if she left I'd miss her. I don't want her to go tbh.
My sister doesn't like our family at all (judging things) she wants to leave to much but I don't want her to leave, what should I do? ;lll

[Shar]

I get what you mean, my sister moved out last year and I thought I wouldn't miss her because we pretty much hate each other but it kinda helped us to get closer because we realise that we do actually miss each others presence. There's not much you can do but show that you love her even if that's like impossible to do and maybe let her see on her own that she is actually going to miss you and your family?

[kuzkasate]

Just tell her what you wrote on here.. talk to her about it. Theres nothing much you can do really.

[dirrty]

theres not much you can do besides tell her what you truly think/feel. shes old enough to make her own decisions so you just gotta let her be.

[Meanies]

tell herrrrr

i moved 400miles away from my brother when i was 13 and he was only 17. was glad about getting away from him then, but now i miss him and only see him twice a year.

[Mathew]

My Uncle moved down to Wiltshire (now living in London though) and my Dad stayed up here in Yorkshire. They didn't get along as boys but now speak to each other almost every day on the phone.

You never know, it might be for the best.

[Andeeh]

Me and my sister get on pretty well, was glad that she decided to go to Brighton Uni. Just tell your feelings towards her moving

[Smits]

YYou cant do nothing, many people move away from home to start university. You'll still see her a lot anyway.

Either way, everyone leaves home at some point In most caSES ANYWAY.

[Nicola]

I never used to get on with my brother at all when we were younger, we argued over everything. I suppose as we got older we put our differences aside and became a little bit more mature and got on 10 times better.

He moved out a few months ago. I always said that I'd never miss him but I actually really do miss him so I try to keep in contact with him as much as I can.

The best thing to do is to let her know that you're going to miss her and keep in regular contact with her whether is via msn, phone, email, letters or something. I'm sure she'll visit you a lot too, you say she doesn't like your family but I have a feeling that she will miss you too.

[ben]

Just starting college that means shes like 15 and college is 2 years so she might decide to move to uni etc etc
but 2 years is long