did i do the right thing

[rokgal]

well my m8 likes this guy and he turned her down when she asked him out then the next day he asked me out and allthough i like him i said no because i didnt wanna hurt my friend

[-Adam]

Yes, believe me that was the best thing you could do.

My mate Paul likes Dani, and Brian knew, anyway Paul went to ask Dani to prom, and Brian knew and he asked Dani and she said yes.

Paul has lost interest in him, Pauls practically my best mate so iv lost interest in Brian, my friends have lost interest in Brian. Trust me, it would cause some major friendship **** ups.

[FlyingJesus]

If you like him and he likes you then go for it, your friend should be the one to get over it rather than you having to sacrifice your own happiness.

Your friend has no chance with him - this much has already been proven and whether you go out with him or not, this fact is not up for debate. The only difference not going for it will make is that you don't get to be with someone you like, which is just stupid. If your friend can't be happy for you then that's her problem, you haven't stolen the guy from her or anything because he was never interested in her.

[rokgal]

If you like him and he likes you then go for it, your friend should be the one to get over it rather than you having to sacrifice your own happiness.

Your friend has no chance with him - this much has already been proven and whether you go out with him or not, this fact is not up for debate. The only difference not going for it will make is that you don't get to be with someone you like, which is just stupid. If your friend can't be happy for you then that's her problem, you haven't stolen the guy from her or anything because he was never interested in her.

he was intrested in her once but not now and she still likes him lots so tommorow imma sort this out with her, telling her what i actually did; i actually like him, but i didnt want ot hurt you

Yes, believe me that was the best thing you could do.

My mate Paul likes Dani, and Brian knew, anyway Paul went to ask Dani to prom, and Brian knew and he asked Dani and she said yes.

Paul has lost interest in him, Pauls practically my best mate so iv lost interest in Brian, my friends have lost interest in Brian. Trust me, it would cause some major friendship **** ups.

Thats what i was thinking like if i know it would hurt them cos they were going out then broke up and he lost intrest completely and she isnt over it so mhmm

[Apple]

I would be pretty pissed off if a girl turned me down just because I sad no to her friend. If you like him and he asks you out then you should say yes, if your friend leaves you just because of it then she isn't much of a friend as he obviously prefers you.

[Nemo]

Just say no, you're like 10, why make things complicated so young, and itll probably end after a week anyway

[Special]

depends how close you were, if you're very close it's good to stick by your friend like that. if you were distant then you should have gone out with him

also, you need to consider if she would have done the same thing

[Sharon]

Just say no, you're like 10, why make things complicated so young, and itll probably end after a week anyway

My thoughts exactly. Seems a bit childish really. Say no wait a few years and try again!

why can i talk im like 10...
NEVERMIND

FDUFDFEIKLD ignore that PLS.

[Jordy]

In theory yes you should be able to go out with him if you both like each other. But because she's human she'll obviously be pissed off at you and very jealous, there's no way the friendship would work even if you've done nothing wrong as such, it's how things are.

I think you did the right thing if you wish to stay friends with her

[Richie]

Put yourself in her position, if you asked him out and he said no then he asked her out what would she say?

If my mate got with a girl I liked I'd be pissed

However

If I got with a girl my mate liked I'd be like "why are you so pissed?"