My cousin.

[Sharon]

Right so. My cousin is like a chav in year 10 (he denies it but whatever) and he's been kicked out of two schools k .... and now hes at my school after being given a last chance (he's been here since Jan) and now like he's suddenly got friendly with a load of girls in year 8 (my year) and I'm fine with it.. but he's married to her on FB too :s and siting with her for lunch and stuff.. still wasn't bothered. But now people are starting to notice and taking the piss and it's all coming back down to me like ''Hahahaha your cousins a peado'' obviously their just friends and stuff but it's affecting me and I don't really like it :S

I've asked him whats going on but really he was just like "not seen her in weeks." funny story I saw you both hugging yesterday...

It's not BOTHERING me but I want to solve it.

Adding to that he had a fight with someone because they said something about him and one of the girls. I realy don't want to see him kicked out from my school as it's the last chance he has. I'm not a meddler (lol yeah right) but I don't want her to ruin it for him. I was thinking of talking to the girl about it but really I don't think it's my place to.

It may look like a stupid problem to most people but I'm really worried for him.

[Callum.]

i'd probs call him a pedo too so you can make him see his wrong ways.

[Inseriousity.]

What you mean you want to solve it? There's nothing to solve, they'll eventually split up and everything will be back to normal. Until then, just ignore it as best you can

[Special]

i know & understand why you're worried/bothered, but at the end of the day it's his problem if he gets into trouble & gets kicked out again.. sure you can try to help him but if he doesn't take the advice then it's his problem

you shouldn't worry too much because it doesn't really effect you

and if people contunie to assosiate you with him, just say that 'i'm not him and that if you have problems with him, speak to him and not me about them'

[Jessicrawrr]

What I don't get is why people are calling him a pedo, it's two years!? My sisters in year eleven and is in a relationship with someone in their second year of college, it's not a bad thing.
If anyone says anything to you just explain why it isn't wrong if they are close like that, and if they don't listen just go along with it, they will eventually grow further and further apart and it won't be a problem anymore

[Suspective]

they are probs just jealous!

[ben]

hardly a pedo hes not even 16 dumb kids

[Robbie]

I'd just leave him to it to be honest.

[Samantha]

Sigh... This sounds like my school all over again, but believe me at the age they are mine were much worse.

When I was in year 11 last year, there was like a fetish for Boys to date people in years 8 and 9, they were sleeping with them and turning them into right *****.

For example, someone went out with this boy in year 11, **Removed** he could be doing that, but he isn't, so I really do't think he can be classed as a peado, and that rumour went round. If you think about it, your cousin has done nothing wrong, I don't see how he can possibly be a peado, he has friends, he made friends, although he may have had a bad rep from other schools he still settled in.
Who cares if he hangs round with year 8's? Who cares if he dates them? it's two years.

Sharon, I do see where you are coming from, what's more annoying is that the girls are in your school year, it's always harder when that happens, but just think when people say he's a peado. Think to yorself, at least he could get someone if he wanted to unlike them, they are just jealous as he is kinda new and he gets all the attention!

Edited by Apple (Forum Moderator): Please do not post inappropriately.

[Pyroka]

I'd call him a player.