Is this a bit obsessive?

[qaxzsw]

Ok, so theres this guy I am MAD about, and hes really nice and funny and abosloutley GORGEOUS, anyway, I'm really scared he finds me clingy, we havn't really talked alot untill recently, but he used to start convo's when we didn't talk that much, and basically we stayed up till 4am this morning on webcams and I have never stayed up that late for anyone, and I would of stayed on later but he decided to go, anyway, I managed to get up at 9am today and I went straight on my laptop, to see if he is online, and he wasn't, so I've sat in all day to wait for him to get on. Basically i sound like an actual loser, but is this over-obsessive? What would you think if someone did this about you?

Thanks,
Jack xxx

[wixard]

hahahaha ummm
i don't know i guess so, but you can't help how you feel but unfortunantly you should probably hide it and play it cool

next time he comes on don't start a convo with him.. in fact GO OFFLINE NOW go do something interesting, don't wait around for him
when you come back later after actually having done something fun he might be on and you don't look like such a loser sitting online all day

[qaxzsw]

hahahaha ummm
i don't know i guess so, but you can't help how you feel but unfortunantly you should probably hide it and play it cool

next time he comes on don't start a convo with him.. in fact GO OFFLINE NOW go do something interesting, don't wait around for him
when you come back later after actually having done something fun he might be on and you don't look like such a loser sitting online all day

I was meant to be going out today... but my friends didn't get up in time so....... its not my fault! I'm gonna go off msn and watch TV for a wihle though, ty for the advice xxx

[Special]

yeah you may like him but does he like you? if you always wait for him and talk to him straight away he is deffo going to think you're clingy.

wait for him to talk to you, that way he won't think that & on top of that you know he likes you back if he starts the convosations

[Minstrels]

Do you know him? As in face to face? Or is this just an e-thing? Either way it's pretty amusing.

[qaxzsw]

yeh i know him in person but he dosn't go to my school, and he does start the convos alot of the time.

[Minstrels]

k this post is messed so ignore it i sorta broke it

---------- Post added 24-10-2010 at 03:29 PM ----------

k new post. back to normal.

so do you see him regularly.

[Sharon]

well you're a bit clingy imo if your gonna sit around all day waiting for him

play hard to get sort of, talk to him - but not all the time

[qaxzsw]

Yes, like once a weekish or more, and I find playing hard to get.. hard. I don't want himt o think im not interested though I dont want to be overly clingy.........

[Apple]

Are you looking to go into a gay relationship or are you just chatting to him because you want to be mates? You do sound a bit obsessive so if you are gay and want to have a relationship then you need to play hard to get I guess. Sorry, not the best with man on man relationships.