Rejection

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guys what are your favourite ways to reject someone???
normally i ignore them or get with their friends or just go funny with them



aaaaand i also need tips. basically when me and my bf argue i always go to this guy dunno why don't even like him but i can guarantee he'll give me the attention i want (not like that...). i don't feel bad about it, i don't sympathize with guys who go for girls with boyfriends. i know he's not the one in the wrong and i am but now he's all ~in love~, asking what we are and because he's best friends with one of my friends she would murder me if i hurt him. obviously i need to stop going to him, working on that but need a way to let him down plz n ty

[Eoin247]

Ignoring works best for me anyway.

I tried rejecting slowly before, bad idea just makes things worse.

[wixard]

oh what
well i'm terrible at rejection i completely lead them on but it's just me trying to be nice
i usually just say i'm not lookin for a relationship or that i can't because my friend likes them and it wouldn't be fair on her
bahahaha

[Sharon]

(is this other guy Asian too )

Aww Jen, is it reallly working out with your current BF this guy sounds lovely and tbh if he knows your with someone you really could just be like 'I want to try and make it work with him' etc.

xxx

[PaulMacC]

Dan Watson ahahahahah!

[buttons]

(is this other guy Asian too )

Aww Jen, is it reallly working out with your current BF this guy sounds lovely and tbh if he knows your with someone you really could just be like 'I want to try and make it work with him' etc.

xxx

no shazzy he's not and my boyfriend isn't fully asian anyway

& when i think of it, it's not really working. when we started seeing each other (not that long ago lol) i liked him because he was quiet, polite, didn't drink/smoke, was older etc and at that time it's what i wanted because i felt like i NEEDED a boyfriend. now i've got friendlier with people who drink and now that i'm 18 i know i'll be out all the time, he doesn't do any of that and he doesn't mind that i do. i should be glad but i'm not, i want him to care that i'm out all night with guys, i want him to protect me :[. idk JUST GET JEALOUS OR SOMETHING!! i always say to him we never spend time together and he says it's cause i'm always out, i want him to tell me to stop going out and spend some time together. i am selfish but this is a whole seperate issue. i don't want to be with the other guy idc if he's nice, i don't like guys who pursue me first. i prefer to work for it. lol ok i don't have any thoughts of finishing with my boyfriend like i said i like working for it. oh god idek what i want. /lifestory


ahaha paul don't be ridic

[Inseriousity.]

haha I actually need someone to reject first, that'd be nice.

your bf sounds really nice though, I wouldn't want to throw away a relationship like that

[Callum.]

when someone implies something i'd say the opposite.

[Rapidshare]

Your always out,

he not.


What there to work out?

Your outgoing,

He not.

So compromise.

You stay in and do whatever you do with him. Watch a movie, play xbox or whatever

and he goes out with you once in a while. meal out, cinema, bowling, whatever


Perhaps he doesnt like drinking much? or smoking? Nothing wrong with that..

If you cant compromise with each other then what the point? How you gonna make something work if you cant compromise.

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^ i'm not rele bothered about my current relationship. that's staying as far as i'm concerned.
the clingy guy tried to add me on fbook but i declined. & wrote on his friends page afterwards. so maybe he'll get the hint. i would say it gently but i do not like him (don't ask y i always go to him for attention idek)