Stalker?:L

[iJess]

Ahem, well yes I'm not sure what else to call this thread LMFAO.

There's this boy at my school, and I'm not even joking, he doesn't leave me alone. I went out with him once, he was my first and only boyfriend I've ever had LMFAO. However, since we've been apart, he goes on my Facebook, likes practically everything on my wall, always puts stuff like "I love you", and he even has his profile picture as a photo of us from like ages ago :S

I've told him to leave me alone several times, and he goes "crying to his mum" and she yells at me and throws threats at me. It's getting worse, he's started giving me all these threats like "I'm going to burn your farm with you in it", and making remarks about my sister. He's lashed out at me few times physically, and I can honestly say that I am getting so scared. He's really tall compared to me, and he could do anything.

I actually don't know what to do, it's driving me insane. I would talk to mum about it, but I've never really spoken to her since all the stuff with my sister, and my dad hates me -.- I don't mean to attention seek, but I just thought that I could talk to some people my age..
It's getting worse, and it's driving me absolutely mental I don't dare to mess with love again, incase the same thing happens :S

Thanks

[Jake]

Um if his mum is threatening you and he is threatening to kill you id probably go pay a visit to your local police station as thats totally not on.

[betheh]

LOL OMFG WOULD HE ****? REMEBER THE TIME HE ADDED US TOO DUCKY'S CONVO AND HE SAID THAT HES GOING TO BATTER HIM?

Edited by Jordan (Forum Moderator): Please do not pointless post

[Camy]

Sounds like a creepy, creepy boy. I would tell your guidance teacher/head of year about it, or get a restraining order..

[Nemo]

How old are you and how old is he?


Report him to the police either way though

[beth]

why don't you block him from yr facebook and hide yr profile? that way he wouldn't be able to see it and his mom can't do ****. maybe tell yr parents.

[MKR&*42]

Yeah jess, I'd definitely do what publicised said - block him from facebook :L.

And in regards to the entire situation - i've had a "clingy" ex-girlfriend before, she did exactly the same thing - stalk me on facebook, constantly try to contact me and would always be looking for me :L. The best thing you can do is simply ignore him, or act like a complete ______ around him -then he won't be in love with you.

But yeah, If his mum is making death threats/violent threats - go to the police o.o

Btw - don't let it put you off from love, just because 1 boyfriend, is a "stalker" doesn't mean they all are.

[Jazz]

Police would be the best option, because he sounds like a mixed up ****

You can report this person online for his cyberbullying here and find more information about what else you could do here

This report goes straight to the police, and they will get in contact with you about your issue.

I would suggest if you were afraid of talking to the police to talk to your school, print everything he has wrote on facebook and stuff and take it to your tutor or a teacher or whatever, ive seen this with one of my friends and the school was a good option for her. Just talk to someone, dont keep it to yourself.

You can always chat to me if you want you have me on MSN so yah

Jazz ~

[kuzkasate]

You definitely need to talk to your mum, definitely. Just explain everything and say you even got threats and day by day, start saving everything he says to you which seems threatening or makes you feel uncomfortable and then you could either contact the police, or if you don't want the police involved - do the same as he did and say 'look, I have this whole file of evidence of you harrasing me' and show him it and then say 'if you don't leave me alone, me and my mother will be in touch with the police.'

Oh and make sure teachers at your school are aware.

[Wig44.]

Make sure you report him AND his mum, they have both threatened you so why let either of them get off?