How long would you wait?

[Shoe]

So I was reading through some threads and just wondered...

How long do you think it is acceptable to wait to have sex with someone after going into a relationship with them and why??

I don't mean how long talking to them, knowing them or "seeing" them. I mean actually in a relationship?

Mine is at least 1 month because I want them to wait and not just get hat they want and leave. I think it proves they are more likely to stick around and actually care for you.

[Samantha]

I think it's whenever you're ready, I remember my last boyfriend we waited 9 month but I was still scared he'd leave me afterwards as was I with my new boyfriend. However, sometimes you get over the worry easily but I think it's whenever you both feel ready. I know in my current relationship it's not about being physical, just being there for each other and if it leads to more we make sure it's what we'd both want.

[buttons]

idk if i really like then id try wait maybe 3/4 months but not planning it just whenever it happens
dont think there's an acceptable time some people last long after one night stand some dont so when u want
i wait a while cause i get attached easily after intimacy tbh so don't really want it to be with someone i have no chance with or who doesn't really like me

[FlyingJesus]

What's waiting

4real if you want to get physical with someone do it, as long as all parties are consenting yadda yadda yadda then there's nothing wrong with it whether you've known them 50 years or never even seen their face

[Samantha]

idk if i really like then id try wait maybe 3/4 months but not planning it just whenever it happens
dont think there's an acceptable time some people last long after one night stand some dont so when u want
i wait a while cause i get attached easily after intimacy tbh so don't really want it to be with someone i have no chance with or who doesn't really like me

You prove a good point, I never really thought of getting attached after intimacy which would probably explain why I felt I needed to stay with my ex forever due to him being my first. Agree with you x.

[scottish]

4real if you want to get physical with someone do it, as long as all parties are consenting yadda yadda yadda then there's nothing wrong with it whether you've known them 50 years or never even seen their face

+1

would be dif for each person so can't really say..

[Zak]

A day

[Catchy]

there's no such thing as an acceptable time lol

[Charz777]

We waited 9 months, but we were only16 when we started our relationship so it wasn't like we were ready to jump into anything. And we were both virgins so we didn't know what we were missing out on!

[Sian]

until i felt comfortable which is always different with each relationship.